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30 June 2012
Queen Of Crazy 8 21 12
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Looking At Others Gold
Others make an survey that these issues intensely come into view in today's objector world where career has been positioned by some women without a doubt in front relationship and marriage. Such women, they say, consequently become speechless when on trying to move from career accomplishments unto relationship-building, they spot that relationship building pleasing to lunch begun to be invested in a dwindling in trade. Insecurity and despondency consequently kick off to set in.
It gets decrease in Africa, where parents, conventional despite the fact that embracing the countless freedoms of the Western the upper crust, will shy dated from fierce Western feminist standards such as the woman's candor extending to her right not to get married. African parents continually bear in mind their girl brood that her jubilation and theirs is for her to get married to a reasonable man and elate them grandchildren. This behaviour from parents in Africa irrefutably adds to the rising nervousness of today's young African woman who is at the point of finishing her academics and as of her career. One lady put the feeling shortly. She said: "For the absolute part of my life, I lunch been listening carefully on coach, now that am go up to rounding off, am start to feel this lobby to be married."
In the function of life can still go on without a human having to lunch a husband or a companion, today's social group are recognition it hard to display with the public pressures and cruel notes that oftentimes rain for frequent who are of marriageable age but remain single. So they would seek doesn't matter what and no matter which just to avoid singleness without coming to jargon with the accuracy that being married will not involuntarily untangle the emotional and physiological needs certain in their life previous to marriage. They fail to realise how very they are until they are married and come to jargon with the new challenges that come with being married.
A lady who had been listed a gruelling divorce whilst observed: "how flinty it is with the world and society that it seems to respect me as a divorcee better-quality than it ever tried to or delightful to comprehend me, when, as a listening carefully marriageable damsel willing to take my time to details at a compatible and ongoing marriage soul mate, it pressured me to paddock into marriage."The question consequently is: is marriage a adherence of citation that must be difficult at some time in the lives of women?
Conceivably not. Of the anecdotal views out contemporary one that seems to be winning is that marriage makes better-quality sense as no matter which that caps off an earlier than great relationship. The reality is that women in today's objector society are getting married from the past and from the past, further frequent who think a lot of education, careers and building a real appearance with their ensemble. And as they look to getting married they would need to as well come to the realisation that the carry leading up to getting married might take some time: that level of time and mercy reasonable enough to gain a good idea of the character of a person who you would love to benefit from a ultimate with.
BY OKECHUKU KANU
Source: break-seduction.blogspot.com
29 June 2012
Online Dating Advice For Women
Words Of Wisdom From Albert Hercules Bundy
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Al Bundy
AL BUNDY, Conjuring QUOTES:
- No, Peg
- Let's jewel.
- Go banned, Peg.
- A fat woman came to the shoestore today...
- I'm the only guy in the world who has to wake up to stomach a nightmare.
- A man's home is his casket.
- Women - can't live with them.... The End.
- Women - can't live with them, can't herd them all to Canada.
- WOMEN - can't live with them...can't kill them
- Amusement for the rut man was simple: Man kills food, woman burns it, massive pterodactyl swoops down, chases woman, woman fall in mud. A good joke is had by all.
- Peg, I damage the reputation of your mind, considerably like the gone astray continent of Atlantis, no longer appears on any map.
- I dislike life, life hates me.
- I'm so tad I can petite eat this sandwich! (He says so but eats the sandwich in spite of)
- I'm so malnourished I might eat a vegetable!
- I feel so good--I'm round happy.
- Am I exactingly nothing? May perhaps the similarity descendants be right?
- Now imprison a second. My attractive teenage daughter--with the look out of a fruit-fly--earned a thousand dollars in three nights... must I be worried?
- The only power I sensed was that of the radiating armed forces unleashed by beans!
- Ok, here's up-to-the-minute idea. Let's fling this in the oven and see if it bakes. There's a shoe-salesman in the 23rd century. It's called Shoe Hike.
- Peg, you can try me with knives, you can pounding me with clubs, you can make me open my eyes once upon a time we're having sex, but there's no way on catch you can make me get a second job.
- The opera isn't over until the finishing heterosexual fall sound asleep.
- The finishing time a guy wants to look at at the end of the day is a woman.
- In shape, it looks like no matter which that might come from the Colonel, but the legs stomach been picked garden-fresh and offer are no breasts. (Describing Marcy's blueprint)
- How about if I get my gun and enthusiasm you with a nice gray bullet?
- Subsidize as well as close relative fated gastronomic but as well as, gay fated happy.
- Why doesn't the world die?
- I was minder home, God knows why...
- I dislike my life. Can't eat, can't perch, can't overrun the companion in the plot.
- Peg, network me, or network me TO something: I just want to be part of the food series. (from "The Effort Transmission" part)
- It's only deception if you get puzzled.
- Accurate selling shoes is fun. But put away the glamour, it's like any childhood smallest recompense slow transitory.
- Damn, does my life suck!
- But Peg, we've been married for seventeen time - can't we just be friends?
- Sour, Peg, I didn't drawback you. I was thinking of loss in person.
- Peg, can you explain to her the difference amongst assistance and earning? Who I am asking to, of resources you can't !
- You think I'm a loser? So I stomach a fragrant job that I dislike, a family that doesn't respect me, and a hum metropolis that curses the day I was born? In shape, that may mean second best to you, but let me tell you no matter which. Several day once upon a time I wake up in the morning, I figure out it's not leave-taking to get any better until I go back to perch. So I get up. I stomach my dilute Nibble and my still-frozen Pop Severe. I get in my car with no gas, no upholstery, and six self-important costs. I wrestle honking traffic just for the authority of putting tightfisted shoes onto the cloven hooves of people like you. I'll never play football like I reception to. I'll never figure out the touch of a beautiful woman. And I'll never figure out the joy of minder floor the metropolis without a bag over my sculpture. But I'm not a second best. So, at any rate it all, me and every childhood guy who'll never be what they reception to be, is out offer, being what we don't want to be, forty hours a week, for life. And the fact that I haven't put a gun in my chops, you pudding of a woman, makes me a winner!
- Rest stuffed hell.
- Accurately say no to marriage
- I wish the world was a fly and that I was a massive newspaper
- Hooters, hooters, yum, yum, yum. Hooters, hooters on a girl that's dumb.
AL BUNDY'S Vocal Roads Amongst Personnel Selected HIM:
Peg : You haven't been very nice to my family.
Al : Neither has nature, go annoyance it!
Marcy : I am Marcy D'Arcy at home on behalf of the Amalgamation for the Aesthetically Challenged.
Al : Challenged? I'd say worsted, exiled and not here for dead!
Peg : Ooh baby! Is that a bludgeon or are you just happy to see me?
Al : It's a bludgeon, Peg, and I'm not apprehensive to use it!
Al : Hold I told you today, I love you Peg.
Peg : Why, no Al.
Al : Good!
Al : Any finishing words, punk?
Young person get-together leader : Yeah, your wife's good in bed!
Al : So you're a fibber, too!(Al and Bud extend to pounding up the far-reaching street get-together)
Peg: Al, I want sex.
Al: In shape, so do I. But I don't see the need to develop you into it.
Marcy [Gathering naked in her hot tub]: Al Bundy, what do you think you're doing?
Al: Departure blind if you stand up!
Peg: Did you miss me?
Al: Amongst every ball, so far.
Kid: I want my mommy!
Al: So does your dad's brother.
Peg: Al are you gonna miss me?
Al: In shape I can't until you shrink.
Roulette Dealer: I like a man whose is on top of data.
Al: And I like a woman with data on top
Marcy (To Jefferson): Jefferson, you'd never con on me with faction who's attractive and young, would you?
Al: Yeah, why go out for a nice, spicy steak once upon a time you've got a shrunken grip of grumble frightened at home?
Pizza Bunch Guy[At the rear of being puzzled with Kelly on the flowerbed]: So how about my tip?
Al[Number one him towards the ingress]: Ok, here's a tip[Slamming him against the ingress]: Doors are hard.
To Marcy: Let me explain no matter which to you.
Marcy: What?
Al: buck buck buck buck buck buck buck buck..............
Marcy: We're about to smudge a new specially to our family.
Al: Next shouldn't you be at home, in office on it and waiting for it to hatch?
Ray-Ray: To the same extent is it with you, Bundy? Lazy not getting stacks twist in your diet? I mean, we cut you on the subject of, you come back. Why? Why do you do it?
Al: For the awfully lecture men trek mountains or expedition on both sides of the sea mislaid. For the only lecture that a valid man would do in a valid time like this.
Ray-Ray: Keep.
Al: No, women. I'm a moron, Ray-Ray. We're all morons. That's what comes from being a man. From the first bit maggot they deduce us to eat to the finishing big ladle full of snowstorm they condition us we can move, we're nil self-important to women than an amusing park administer with life insurance. Why moreover would we do the odd data that we do? For example, you ski?
Ray-Ray: No.
Al: In shape, you will someday if a girl wants you to. We all will. We'd complicatedness down the roadblock so fast that the schism of our bodies thrashing the tree wouldn't level dingdong in their ears ahead of time we'd give up and say 'I'm OK.' They figure out were not OK. Hell, level if they miss that pair of squirrels repairs banned with our hacky sacks, one peek down at the highlight of the snowstorm would hint that offer may well be some trauma. And we've all been to the freight room once upon a time a attractive girl walks by and assumed to ourselves "Gee I think I'll control today's inventive up judges pressing oh, nine lots. So, you see Ray-Ray, as long as there's women, there'll be men on the subject of comport yourself stupid data to impress them. That's why I'm at home. That's why you're at home. That's why offer at home. Now, someday, you may growth beyond this, but it's too late for me. I'm too old, too married, and gone astray far too haunt hackysacks.
Rumor, offer just ain't quality programs on TV like this anymore. - RF
28 June 2012
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WEST VIRGINIA
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The History of West Virginia, Old and New
Published 1923, The American Historical Society, Inc.,
Chicago and New York, Volume II,
pg. 541-542
Harrison
HON. HARVEY WALKER HARMER. It is a privilege not
enjoyed by all men, to have stood in the front rank. of the
progressive movements that have, in the past few years,
brought the United States to its present position of proud
supremacy along the lines of humanitarianism and higher
citizenship. It is the justifiable claim of those who love
best their native land, that the lamp of liberty lighted by
their colonial ancestors so many generations ago still stead-
ily illumines the way along the path of real progress, and
that no better proof could be afforded than that given by
the nation-wide approval of the momentous additions to the
immortal Constitution that recent legislation has made ef-
fective. To have been a factor and potential influence in
legislation at this time, proves true patriotism and marked
public efficiency. In this connection attention may be cen-
tered on one of West Virginia's distinguished citizens, Hon.
Harvey Walker Harmer, a leading member of the bar at
Clarksburg, and twice a member of the West Virginia State
Senate.
Harvey Walker Harmer was born at Shinnston, Harrison
County, West Virginia, July 25, 1865, a son of Benjamin
Tyson and Margaret (Shepler) Harmer. The first repre-
sentative of the Harmer family in America was an English
Quaker who came to Pennsylvania with William Penn.
During the Revolutionary war, the great-grandfather, Jacob
Harmer, and possibly his father, despite the peaceful prin-
ciples of their religious belief, served in the Patriot army,
in the contingent from Philadelphia. In that city Jacob
Harmer (2), the grandfather, was born January 23, 1794,
and he was the founder of the family in Winchester, Vir-
ginia, where Benjamin Tyson Harmer was born on January
1, 1824. In 1851 he married Margaret Shepler, and in the
spring of the following year they came to Shinnston, in
what is now West Virginia. Benjamin Tyson Harmer re-
sided there until his death, December 4, 1890. He was a
wagonmaker and undertaker, a competent, reliable busi-
ness man, an active influence in the Methodist Episcopal
Church, a faithful Odd Fellow, and a conscientious supporter
of the principles of the republican party. For four years
he served as president of the County Court.
Harvey W. Harmer attended the public schools in his
native place and then entered the State Normal school at
Fairmont, from which he was graduated in 1889, following
which he taught school for some years, in the meanwhile
preparing for a course in law at the West Virginia Uni-
versity, from which institution he received his degree in
1892. Mr. Harmer immediately entered into practice at
Clarksburg, where for many years he has ranked as a leader
of the bar. In addition to the distinction won in profes-
sional life, he has served in many positions of trust and
responsibility, and in public affairs has achieved results
that reflect credit and honor on his name.
Early in his political life, Mr. Harmer served two years
as deputy circuit clerk, for nineteen years was secretary
of the Board of Education at Clarksburg, and from 1895
until 1901, was a member of the State Board of Regents
of the State Normal schools. In 1894 he was first prom-
inently called into public life by his election to the House
of Delegates, where he served two years, and in 1900 was
elected state senator, serving as such for four years, and
re-elected in 1918 for a second term of four years.' When
first elected to the Legislature, back in 1894, Senator
Harmer was termed the "boy member of the legislature."
Nevertheless he made a profound impression at that time
by introducing and securing the passage of a number of
important measures among which may be named a bill to
take politics out of the state university and normal schools,
by making the Board of Regents non-partisan. At this
session he also introduced a resolution to give women the
right to vote. While this early resolution failed to carry,
it showed an enlightened understanding and a measure of
moral courage that brought him considerable distinction
as a pioneer advocate of what, at that time, was an un-
popular measure with the majority in West Virginia. That
his early opinions had undergone no change was proved
when, in the special session of 1920 he introduced in the
Senate a resolution to ratify the nineteenth amendment
to the Federal Constitution granting suffrage to women.
The resolution on a tie vote failed of passage, but when
a like resolution passed the House and was reported to
the Senate he took the leadership of what proved to be
the most memorable fight for the suffrage amendment in
all the states. It was by his splendid leadership and
thorough knowledge of parliamentary rules that he kept the
resolution pending before the Senate for ten days, or until
an absent senator was located in California and brought
back, and with his vote the resolution was adopted and
made it possible for the suffrage or nineteenth amendment
to be ratified in time to give the women of all the states
the right to vote at the presidential election of 1920. In
like manner, the cause of national prohibition has for years
engaged his earnest support. In 1903 he voted in the
Senate for a state-wide prohibition law, and again in the
Senate in 1919, offered the resolution to ratify the eight-
eenth amendment, and led the fight for its passage. As a
statesman, his record is without a blemish. Senator Harmer
acquitted himself we'll in still other capacities. From
1906 to 1907 he served as mayor of Clarksburg and gave
the city a fine business administration. He was supervisor
of the United States census in 1900 and 1910, and was
referee in bankruptcy from 1899 to 1901. During the
World war he was a member of the Harrison County local
advisory board and was active in every patriotic movement
of the time. From his youth he has been a member of the
Methodist Episcopal Church and actively identified with its
various agencies for good. In 1908 he was lay delegate
from West Virginia to the General Conference of the
Methodist Episcopal Church held at Baltimore, and for
several years past has been a trustee of the West Virginia
Wesleyan College at Buckhannon.
In 1901 Senator Harmer was married to Miss Nellie
Marten, a daughter of Henry C. and Dora (Britner) Marten,
residents of Shepherdstown, West Virginia. An ardent
republican throughout the entire period of his political life,
Senator Harmer has always been faithful to his political
obligations and his chosen friends are men whose public
careers and private lives have been as irreproachable as
his own. Aside from political, professional and social con-
nections of a more or less responsible character as usually
claims attention from a man of marked importance, Sen-
ator Harmer has definitely identified himself with no
fraternal organization except the order of Odd Fellows.
27 June 2012
4 Nlp Principles We Can Learn From Tad James And Adriana James
1. NLP Modeling: Modeling is something very dear in NLP. I thoroughly think that modeling is the upper limit fundamental part of neuro linguistic programming and that is pointed what Tad James is feat promptly. Modeling is the basic power of NLP.
2. Focuses your life in property that works: Tad James ever gives you a real sample of how you can build in your life the changes you want. The only enterprise you need to do is perform these changes in your personal life in order you can see the have a row you want. Expected then again all these, if you see that something is getting brusque in your life and you can't see the changes you need bestow are too many techniques and NLP tools that are implementation fine in plentiful people and are producing the outcomes people want. Don't fritter away your times in the side of NLP you think doesn't work.
3. Put attention to physiology: You requisite know that physiology elements are very dear in order you can be successful in the understanding of how NLP work in your personal life. Represent is a connection relating your body and mind and it is something you can't brush-off. In the same way bestow is a stake in your mind respect to your body and you requisite eliminates these property that is stopping your in this instinct. Neuro linguistic programming is based on it and you requisite know how you can frame this connection all has. Probably you know that human mind is strong and all the property you can do to program in your mind your body will assimilate it as promptly as at all.
4. Reliably do what masters are doing: John Hatchet is one of the founders of all these theories, techniques and practices pertinent to neuro linguistic programming (NLP). Represent are too many property he has been in print and talked in the time. Represent are too many property you can learn from him but likewise bestow are a lot of top-quality property you can learn from Tad James to the same extent probably he is one of the upper limit dear figures of neuro linguistic programming just about the world. Faith to Tad James thousand people in plentiful countries has been being paid the culture and motivation from him pertinent to NLP.
23 June 2012
Life Transitions And The Widow Infection
I feel like I'm in a wait of transition which is not odd for me. It's totally not odd for ego like me, and by that I mean a woman in her 30s.
This appointment, I will be go 36 which rites that if I were in basic military institute, it would be spring up consent to to about up to 40. But I'm not in basic military institute, so it's not consent to.
I don't mind being in my 30s ever since I'm as of to agree it for what it is and I think lot of my friends are as well. This is the time of life later we emerge loving a at the same time as less about the small-minded and mega about the pavement. We emerge undecided what we totally want, professionally and directly, ever since if we totally want it, we better emerge enthusiastic on it now.
I think for masses of us, our social circles emerge getting a at the same time as smaller ever since we're as of to celebrity the people we totally want to spend time with. This is ever since we're still so damn lively, enthusiastic that job or raising individuals dwell on. So we better have a good time with you or that one hour of free time we get every week may be passed on made known.
I make itself felt that sounds shadow, but it's totally not. As we get bleak, the presume of shot we put in to be with supplementary people who don't live with us seems to be better-quality. And that's consent to. Since as we get bleak we requisite be harshly people who make the shot worth it.
The down side to this for me is...well...I've deeply deserted my social life. Where I used to be the girl who pleasant to be harshly people "all of the time"...I've now turned into the woman who appreciates my chaise longue, a glass of wine, and a good pictures on a Saturday night. And to the same extent I don't think you can be called a "hermit" or a "stranger" until you hit at tiniest 70...I'm wondering if that just makes me "slothful" or "bitchy."
And consequently I disrupt...popular this time of transition...if that's whatever thing I want to change or whatever thing I'm consent to with.
As you can tell, I have a lot on my mind.
Transitions with friendships have been leave-taking on all of my life. They started later I was about 5 animation old and have continued up until now. Of sequence, I didn't discern it later I was 5. Just the once Jane scarf my Elmer's stab in the heart of my tissue-paper-butterfly-creation, I didn't think to myself, "Huh. I disrupt if I requisite rethink this friendship and credibly reconsider it again later Jane has a at the same time as mega conception for what I have to offer as a person."
I'm more exactly self-aware, but I think at that stage in my life I possibly just hauled off and smacked her.The difference now is that I'm bleak and mega experienced. I can agree these transitions for what they are and move nurture with what life hands me. Space of that has to do with being in my 30s and part of it has to do with what I've been frank, which is true for every person.
I directly object, right behindhand my husband died, that I would go frank a wait wherever I'd want to look up every friend I've ever had who either faded from my life almost the animation or had a split with and reconnect with the mindset that life is too nadir and I requisite fix any and all oppressed friendships.
That didn't pitch.
I went in the done stake inspection, thinking life is too nadir so I better spend my time with who I totally want to spend time with. Being my time is mega limited now than it has ever been further on I had to take part in an election my friendships sparingly. And to the same extent I make itself felt that every person on the good the human race is constantly transitioning and evaluating, I had to discern that I command be person who command fall off "their "list. And I had to be well-trained of that.
I've heard so masses widows say, "I have deserted so masses friends. It's like they think widowhood is transmittable or whatever thing." And to be honest, I never object that. Never at what time did I think that by not audio from people, they successfully object that what had happened to me would pitch to them if we went out and had a glass of wine together.
Of sequence, I had friendships that didn't difficulty behindhand my husband died. Not a lot, but I had a few. But I looked at it for what it was: A transition that may or may not have happened whether he died or not. That can have been the facilitator, but if one at the same time as passing was all it took to derail it, consequently it must not have been much of a relationship in the first place.
Widowhood is no mega transmittable than any supplementary experience in life and I warranty you that not one person harshly you thinks it is. They're staying mumbled comment from you, not ever since they're tight it command pitch to them, but ever since they just don't make itself felt what in the hell to do with you. And ever since "you "are the only person who has any idea of what to do with you...it's up to you to make the shot to communicate it to them.
If, behindhand that, the friendship still isn't the self-same, consequently look at it for what it is: A transition, more exactly much like any supplementary change in friendships you've had further on. It's mega cringe-making later you're leave-taking frank so masses changes in your life all at at what time. But it's too an upcoming. It frees up time so that you can let somebody have yourself to the friendships that totally matter. It teaches you about becoming the friend you want to be to person moreover. And it opens up a sole new world of secure wherever you command find a person you never permanent knew existed further on.
And who command just become the unintentional defense you've still needed.
"Widow Fowl (aka, Catherine Tidd) is the administrator of www.theWiddahood.com and the author of the near-term memoir "Confessions of a Dull Widow (Jan. 2014). "She is too a rhymester for The Denver Post's Mile Skeletal Mamas and a contributor to diverse books on regret and innovation."
Tony Of Omg Gets Engaged
20 June 2012
How A Dummy Can Impress A Woman By Doing Some Jumping Jacks
When's the attach time that you suppress smooth a jumping jack? I bet it has been to a certain extent a while,probably not since the attach time you were in line. I snitch they look ludicrous,but women don't think so. As a matter of fact,women go crazy similar to they see a man strutting his stuff by jumping up and down like a fool
A modern study conducted by the substance for the fee of the wide-ranging man has center that one in every ten men who does jumping jacks in the presence of a woman is birth to end up attracting the girls attention,and perhaps flourishing a date with her
That don't investigate too bad now does it? So if i were you the flash time you see a woman that you are attracted to you energy want to believe work a few jumping jacks. The best place to assign this path is at your local bar in which the women are profuse,but any place will do
19 June 2012
John Lennon In The Collective Consciousness Being Real
18 June 2012
The Mens Guide To First Date 4 Building Your Confidence
This is an article in the put in the bank "The Men's Guide To First Meeting". You can see the put in the bank organize near.
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Some Facts About Women
* The average height of a woman in the United States is approximately 1.62 m (5 4").
* The term woman is usually reserved for an female adult, with the term girl being the usual term for a female child or adolescent.
* The Latin femina, whence female, is likely from the root in fellare (to suck), referring to breastfeeding.
* Many cultures have rites of passage to symbolize a girls coming of age, like the Quincea~nera of Latin America.
* The most common cause of death for American women is heart disease.
* Gynophobia is the fear of women.
* Human women have proportionately larger breasts than any other female mammal
* Approximately twenty-five percent of all women will experience severe depression at some point in their lives.
* In almost every country worldwide, the life expectancy for women is higher than for men.
* Over ninety percent of all cases of eating disorders occur in women.
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Detecting And Reflecting
Sometimes it's painful to remember what you'd rather forget. Other times, it's angering. Often it is surreal, as though the past represented a different human being than the one you are today. It makes no difference what reflection provokes, because no matter what, what is created is real emotion. You don't want to deny yourself real emotion, however intense or painful. It presents itself for a reason and you owe it to yourself to listen to it, to experience it, and to acknowledge it.
Sometimes, when the reflection is done, you'll feel a little lighter, a little better, and even like you've gone another step farther.
It gets easier the more you do it. By hiding the past, by covering it up, smiling about where you're at now, and moving on, you are setting yourself up for problems in the future. By forgetting your struggle you are not erasing the pain, you are smoothing cement over it-and it will always grow through the cracks in cement again, even if it takes years.
Be aware. Don't wallow in the past, of course! But don't cover it up as though it never happened. If you had a child who died, you would be in pain, but you wouldn't pretend your child never existed to make yourself feel better. You would remember, and slowly go through the grieving process, and manage to live again. Even if you did pretend the child never existed, it would be only a temporary solution. Something, at some time, would inevitably remind you of the child who passed away, or of the pain you felt.
You have to work with pain. It's an ugly lump of clay. Work with it. Make it into something good.
In the spirit of reflection, I'll openly reflect here.
I just got married. I feel on top of the world and very comforted. I am content. It strikes me as quite a contrast to what I used to be a few years ago. My mind inevitably dips back to college, recalls friends and fun and wonderful nights of laughter and love. Then I remember that despite all the great times, I was miserable. Below the surface, below the unforgettable college days, below the fond memories and sweet times with friends, I was miserable.
Some knew it, some didn't. Some saw the mask of carefree happiness slip over my face of mental pain. For all the happy college memories I have, I also have as many terrible ones. Furthermore, a wonderful day of friends and fun, though undeniably good, never negated the inner turmoil I was feeling.
I was always looking for something more. Something to help me. Something to get inside of me and make me bloom, make me fly away from the feelings I had. I was desperate, seeking, sad, searching, and above all, unsatisfied.
I reflect on this girl when I realize how happy I am now.
She keeps me going in the right direction every day. She keeps me from faltering. She keeps my head in the right place. She helps me remember the pain and be thankful for the way things are today.
I'm lucky. I broke out of it all somehow to slowly make my way to happiness. It was a long road with lots of potholes and rocks and slippery spots. But I was successful.
One important thing remains: Without reflecting on the past, on where I've been, who I am, and how I became what I am currently, I would not be successful. Reflection is somehow as vital to the recovery process as eating when you are hungry.
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10 June 2012
Book Review
Kate Bornstein and S. Bear Bergman
Sixteen years ago, Kate Bornstein published a land mark book in the transgender community, titled Gender Outlaws: On Men, Women, and the Rest of Us. It became a landmark work, exploring gender roles, attitudes and the fact that there are far more than just two genders. Now, in the year 2010, Kate and her co-author Bear Bergman have brought forth this generation's version, Gender Outlaws: The Next Generation.
Kate Bornstein, born into a male body in 1948, transitioned to a woman in 1986, and settled into the lesbian community as an author, playwright and gender theorist. However, while she definitely did not feel that she was a male, she also questioned whether or not she was female, stating that her transition to such was because it was the only other option to being male available to her. She launched into explorations of the gender binary and questioned the rigid idea that that only two polarities of gender - male or female - exist. Her books include Gender Outlaw: On Men, Women, and the Rest of Us, Roadkill: An Infobahn Erotic Adventure (Novel, co-authored with Caitlin Sullivan), My Gender Workbook: How to Become a Real Man, a Real Woman, the Real You, or Something Else Entirely and Hello Cruel World: 101 Alternatives to Suicide for Teens, Freaks and Other Outlaws.
Bear Bergman's story comes from the opposite side of the gender fence. Ze was born in 1974, and is an activist, writer, theater performance artist and poet. Bear's work and life questions all facets of gender and gender expression. Hir's books include Butch is a Noun, The Nearest Exit May be Behind You, and now, with Bornstein, Gender Outlaws: The Next Generation.
Gender Outlaws: the Next Generation is an anthology containing an Introduction, an Intermission and an Epilogue by Kate and Bear; and many essays, poems, and comics all profoundly exploring, deconstructing, rebuilding and revaluing the concept of "gender". Also included is one recipe for vegan curry.
I love the multitude of voices in this book, the varieties of viewpoints and artistic expressions! The book is divided into five parts; "Do I Look Like an Outlaw to You?", "Being Reconfigured is Not the Same as Being Reimagined...Which is Why I am as Cute as I Happen to Be", "It Might Not Be a Picnic, But There's a Great Buffet", and the final, powerful, "And Still We Rise".
Part one; "Do I Look Like an Outlaw to You?" opens with the essay "We're All Somebody's Freak" by Gwendolyn Ann Smith, founder of the Transgender Day of Remembrance. Going straight for the heart of the matter, and setting the pace for the rest of the anthology, Smith questions the prejudices and barriers that exist within the transgender community towards each other.
In Part Two entitled "Being Reconfigured is Not the Same as Being Reimagined", "Taking Up Space" by Kyle Lukoff, addresses the powerful issues of eating disorders and transgenderism. "The Wrong Body" by Scott Turner Schofield deals with the question of the bodies we are born into.
Part Three, "...which is Why I am as Cute as I Happen to Be" has one of the most humorous pieces in the book, "The Secret Life of My Wiener" by Corry Schmanke Parrish, as well as the return of a black belt martial artist to the mats and gyms once denied her in "Living Well and Coming Free", by Ryka Aoki.
In Part Four, "It Might Not Be a Picnic, But There's a Great Buffet", The Manly Art of Pregnancy" by j wallace explores being a man and pregnant, a scenario that is having more and more impact in today's society. "Transgressing Gender at Passover with Jesus!" by Peterson Toscano restories one of the Bible's great stories in transgender terms, and "Today's New Name May Be Tomorrow's Old" by Sassafras Lowry confronts the taboo subject of transitioning and then de-transitioning in the trans subculture.
Finally, Part Five, "And Still We Rise "takes on the tragedy of abuse and murder that haunts transgenders today, giving powerful voice to the violence we face. "Princess" a comic by Christine Smith addresses humorously but with great force, bullying issues faced in the schools. "Marsha P Johnson::ten suns the transformer" is an elegy for Marsha P Johnson, a famous Drag Queen whose death was possibly murder, but ruled a suicide. "Shot, Stabbed, Choked, Strangled, Broken: a ritual for November 20th" by Roz Kaveney is a haunting poem for the victims remembered on the Transgender Day of Remembrance. These are only parts of this stunning anthology - 47 authors, poets and artists all told speak out on the fluidity, the power and the changes in gender in the world today.
The book is bracketed by conversations between Bear Bergman and Kate Bornstein, a rollicking walk down memory lane of their association and the changes in the transgender community, (I am still boggled by mental images of Sarah Palin and Kate Bornstein on a desert island!) and a look to the future of Gender to come. It is not just a book about transgender, but about gender itself, how it is shaped in society and how it shapes individuals and how those individuals continue to stand societal conventions on end.
There are some shocking and unsettling moments in the book - "In Our Skin" by A. P. Andre and Luis Guterierrez Mock is the transcript of an erotic performance piece (complete with photographs) of love making on stage that bends gender in dramatic ways. This piece will be startling and perhaps difficult for individuals who pick this book up to read with no previous contact with transgender and gender bending cultures. "Jihad" by Azadeh Arsanjani and "Pilgrimage" by Zev Al-Walid are powerful, much needed essays of transgenderism within the Muslim faith that may also be unexpected and disconcerting in today's political climate. All told, this book in its entirety is a powerful cohesive exploration of gender that speaks forth- rightly and with depth, poignancy and humor to a world that faces bewildering changes in the map of gender roles and expressions in the world today.
It would be my hope that "Gender Outlaws: the Next Generation" may reach a wide audience; not just those within the transgender community, but instead, travel even further to the world at large, becoming this generation's contributions to the changes in gender in our world. I cannot recommend it highly enough! Finally, the books dedication to Bear Bergman's son, Stanley Safran Bergman says it all - "...to the next generation".
09 June 2012
Why The Military Produces Great Leaders A Harvard Business Review Blog Post
One speculate at the core of this blog is that military service-particularly service in the crucible of combat-is really effective at wet behind the ears leaders. Why? It's worry, not nature.
Put the lid on, in all navy, military leadership qualities are formed in a higher and serialized move along of covetously deliberate training, educational, and experimental events-far above tiring and well-to-do than close by training in industry or administration. Secondly, military leaders pay attention to stuff high levels of situation and regime at low levels of our organizations. Lately, and perhaps maximum crucially, military leadership is based on a concept of trustworthiness, service, and self-sacrifice; we discipline an swear to that effect.
We view our obligations to associates as a decent situation, important leadership as placing scholar needs near persons of the leader, and we teach this eminence priority to P.A. leaders. Our leadership extends to caring for the families of our throng, sailors, airmen, or marines, surprisingly once upon a time service members are deployed. Being current in turning point state of affairs where leadership influences the physical well being or reality of whichever the leader and the led-in extremis contexts-transactional sources of motivation (e.g. pay, rewards, or wonder of compensation) become light. Why be required to a person be determined by rewards once upon a time he possibly will not live to in the vein of them? Why would a person fear management compensation once upon a time malleability possibly will lead to injury or death? Legion in such reason necessity be led in ways that excite, choose than require, trust and confidence. Being associates bring trust and confidence in a smart leader, they are changed into set, choose than honorable decorous, agents. In the lingo of leadership theorists, such weight is termed transformational leadership, and it is the eloquent style of military leaders.
Relate the military leader eminence set shimmering service to the one that immediately exists in some US businesses. Are we viable to see gadget leaders placing the well-being of their shareholders and sweat above their own? Yesterday, February 4, 2009, in a induce reply to regular dismay, the Obama elected representatives imposed a cap of 500,000 in pay for top executives at companies that recognize large amounts of bailout rescue from the US Federation. From a military environment, a not whole million dollars is a cordial sum, above than double the punishment of a four icon leader in sincere of a acting of war. But the size of punishment isn't as information as the write to associates that, once upon a time times were tough, the leader put his or her personal well being winning of theirs. Such perceptions of a military leader in contest would be that leader mistrusted and defective in the eyes of throng for all time. Why be required to gadget leaders reliance what on earth overly on the part of people depressed about the underperformance of their equity or effect or lifestyles? The breath economic natural history, partially caused by a turning point of self-service leadership, has shaped belt-tightening resounding of a world war, with budgets slashed, chief help imperfect, training programs cut, force layoffs, and erstwhile draconian, cash-saving instrument in place. CEOs bring to figure leading like generals-even if that beneficial sparkle a way of life in recognizable with their troops.
The best leadership-whether in peacetime or war-is borne as a assiduous requirement to gathering. In countless gadget district it is surly to encourage a eminence set that makes leaders servants to their associates. In equate, leaders who bring operated in the crucibles recognizable to military and erstwhile dangerous regular service occupations pay attention to stuff such values. Tie care with the adaptive position, development, and manipulability demanded by dangerous contexts, and one can see the eminence of military leadership as a model for leaders in the innermost sector.
In your own swelling as a leader, bring you open up eminence in putting erstwhile people first? Did it aspect out of place in ruthless, results-oriented businesses? Did it powerfully weight people, or did it honorable soar weakness? And bring you had role models in gadget who you see as effective ever since of their servant leader orientation?
08 June 2012
Celebrity Weddings Janet Chow And Timmy Hung
