Dr Tartts Dating Advice The Power Of Telling The Waitress Shes Cute

Its hot, summertime, and once again you find yourself alone with no one to vacation in St. Lucia with. You have no problems attracting men but finding one who is marriage material is beginning to feel like Mission Impossible. However, your luck suddenly changes at an after work mixer at the W Hotel. You've finally met a man who is worthy of a serious date with you. He's a tall, handsome professional gentleman with broad shoulders, large hands, and alluring lips. He's dressed in spit polished shoes and matching take-charge persona. His swagger makes you tingle with anticipation of his power to vastly upgrade your love life.

You are enjoying a wonderful first date at- SURPRISE- a nice restaurant in the upscale part of town. He opens the door for you and even selects the correct bottle of red wine, Shiraz to be exact, which happens to be your favorite to accompany your lamb chops. The food is scrumptious and the wine has warmed both your sense of hope and opened your heart to new possibilities. More importantly, this man has wasted no time in expressing his interest in you as indicated by the foot action under the table. Things are going even better than planned and then it happens...

That cute, little waitress who seated the two of you- who already was a little too friendly for your liking in the first place- walks over and makes direct eye contact with your date and tops off his wine while barely even acknowledging you. Mr. Take-Charge-Persona smiles and returns the direct eye contact with Ms. Friendly. It looks like you aren't the only one who's in the market for a man with marriage material.

What do you do?

A) Instruct your date to focus his attention on you and only you

C) Give the waitress a compliment and ask for the manager

If you answered A... WRONG.

If you answered B... WRONG.

If you answered C... WRONG.

If you answered D... CONGRATULATIONS and CALL ME!

While putting the waitress in her place, refocusing your date, or outright ignoring Ms. Rude might make you feel better; it certainly will ruin any chance you have with Mr. Right. Why?

A) If you have to instruct or request that your date refocus his attention on you, the "She's Controlling Alarm" may be set off. Also, you appear desperate. Even worse, now that you have now officially verified the waitress as someone powerful enough to distract his attention away from you, he will undoubtedly want her more.

C) Congratulations. MR. RIGHT is going home with YOU. I'm impressed because you must have been read my book, The Ring Formula: How To Marry MR. RIGHT, because you just pulled a serious POWER MOVE even a psychologist would be impressed with. Oh, I'm sorry...you're probably asking, "What did I do?"

1) By asking for the manager, you scare the crap out of the waitress because she knows she was wrong. She's afraid of a complaint but, instead, you praise her for her excellent customer service. In turn, she is so relieved that she tries to cover her tracks by filling your wine and being super nice to you. In fact, when she returns to check on your table she doesn't even look at your date again. My, my how the tables have turned!

Chances are that your date has never met a woman so confident and skillful. He now begins to look at you as the potential "ONE" and is mesmerized by your beauty, confidence, power, and security.

Moral of the story, when it comes to dating towards marriage...

NO INSECURITY ALLOWED.

So, to all my beautiful ladiesNext time Ms. THANG decides to unwisely flirt with your man because she doesn't know who she's messing with.you put your RING FORMULA to work and let her know that there's only room for one woman in your man's life and you just so happen to be pouring her wine right now!

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