READER QUESTION #1: IN LOVE WITH MOMS BOYFRIEND
I am in love with my mother's boyfriend. Wow, that looks terrible written down. But I am, and I am pretty sure he is in love with me.
I am 24, he is 45 and my mom is 51. When I returned from college and met him, I was taken by him instantly and just knew I had to have him.
Well, we've been "SEEING EACH OTHER" for 3 months and he wants to stop seeing my mom but I don't know how to tell her without breaking her heart.
He has already asked me to move in with him but I just don't know how we'll be able to carry on once everything is out in the open. Do you think I should let this guy go or should I pursue a relationship even though it will really hurt my mother?
"SARA"
R. DON STEELES ANSWER:
Let him go? Where do you think he will go? There is no letting go. You and he are joined at the hips, so to pun. I see no options other than moving in with him after your mother is informed as to what the situation is.
I have no idea what will happen after you and he tell her. You have betrayed your mother in her eyes, your own eyes and in his eyes.
He has betrayed your mother in your eyes and your mother's and in his. You both had better sleep lightly with Kevlar vests when you go out. Hell hath no fury like a mother scorned.
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