30 May 2014

Why Be A Peacemaker

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Why Be A Peacemaker
Has anyone said or done something unkind to you today? Perhaps at work or at school someone was rude, making some insulting or demeaning remark. Or, while you were shopping, a person may have crowded in ahead of you in line. Similar things may occur in one's own family. One member may speak slightly or disrespectfully of another. Or they may be rude or unkind in some other way. How do you react when these things occur?"

IS IT WISE TO RETALIATE?

Is there not an immediate inclination to retaliate? But have you found that this really helps?

The fact is, many relationships have deteriorated and broken up because of retaliation. An opposite course is much wiser.

For consider: When tired or irritated, have you not said or done unkind things to persons you love?

We all have. And have we not wished later that we could retract what was said or done?

But if retaliation to the unkindness follows, does not a cycle often start? Yes, unkindness quickly follows unkindness and hostilities grow.

Some persons may feel that they should repay injury with injury to keep others from taking advantage of them. But, time and again, experience has shown how unwise this is.

Feuds can result. Sometimes these have lasted so long that the participants do not even recall how the strife began.

Even whole nations and peoples have become involved in this cycle of rendering injury for injury.

How can it be stopped? What is the best way to react to unkind remarks or acts?

GO THE EXTRA MILE TO BE A PEACE MAKER


When the neighbor's dog drank her baby's milk, the woman demanded compensation. But her neighbor became enraged and a knife fight resulted.

The two women cut each other severely-all just because of the loss of a little milk.

This is typical of what can happen when people blow a small thing completely out of proportion.

Often this leads to far greater loss to those concerned than if the original demand had been granted or withdrawn peacefully.

You may know people who are bent on getting every personal advantage regardless of the expenditure of time and money. They make issues over trifles and insist that they must be vindicated.

Would it be wise to get involved with them in lengthy and costly legal battles? Often it is better to take a loss and thus avoid getting embroiled in a maze of legal problems.

As far as an official or a supervisor is concerned, he or she may have the authority to request the performance of a particular service.

Instead of protesting, the individual asked to do something usually is farther ahead by being willing to do what is required of him or her. Thus avoid needlessly reprimand from those in authority.

Now, in the case of the two women mentioned above likely neither one of them would have been scarred for life had there been a willingness to make compensation or to take a small loss.

This is well illustrated in what happened to two women attending a public function.

One of them accidentally knocked over a bottle of milk that the other woman had bought to feed to her baby.

She quickly cleaned everything up and, when the other woman returned to her seat, offered to pay for the spilled milk.

But the other woman had no interest in compensation and the two women soon were engaged in pleasant conversation.

CONCLUSION


Truly, the person who gains is the one who avoids making issues over trifles and really goes beyond what is asked of him or her to settle matters peaceably.

There is real wisdom in being willing to walk that extra mile to be a peace maker.

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25 May 2014

Tari Tari 05

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Tari Tari 05
After four episodes, "Tari Tari" finally decided to add real drama to the mix this week. A scary moment for any fan of the series, but based on the results it shouldn't be.

"Hyouka "added plot back into the mix this week, but while it's been absent for a while it wasn't an entirely new proposition so we more or less knew what to expect. With "TT", the first four eps have been remarkably consistent - comfortably settled between silly and serious, between plot and time-wasting, between story and character-driven. This was the first seismic change in tone for the series, and until it happens you can never be sure how that's going to go.

If "Tari Tari" was going to "go serious", it made sense that it would center on Wakana, whose backstory has been given the most reverent treatment so far, by far. It always seemed as if Konatsu might just be a bit of a false main character, and that Wakana was the one who would drive the story forward in the end. That might just be true, or it might be that the characters are going to rotate in central roles arc by arc - we'll see. But Wakana's past has always been a subtext even when the story focused on Konatsu's stage trauma and her plucky quest to get the Karuta Chorus Club up and running. She seems to be the character that ties everything together, and her journey towards finding her love for music again the closest thing to a spine running through whatever other arcs the series chooses to pursue.

While I wouldn't want "Tari Tari" to be as heavy in tone as it was here every week (next week will also be a drama ep, clearly), as an outlier I thought they handled it very well. The flashback scenes with Wakana and her mother scattered through the ep were just detached and dispassionate enough to escape feeling manipulative. On the face of it this could hardly be more of an anime clich'e - young girl with a sick mother ("Ohara Sayaka") in a hospital bed, single Dad ("Hamada Kenji") soldiering on as daughter suppresses her feelings. But the familiar can be powerful if handled tastefully, and I felt this was. I think this is a scenario teenagers (and former teenagers) can relate to - not being nice enough to our parents when we had the chance. Wakana has been a mostly kind if detached presence in the series for the most part, but this is a different side of her - driven, focused, and intolerant of her mother's joyfully irreverent behavior to the point of nastiness.

The exposition is handled nicely - we get the gist of it without details being hammered home. Dad withheld the seriousness of Mom's illness from Wakana. Wakana probably knew, but convinced herself not to worry. She wanted to study and work hard, Mom wanted to write songs and sing them. In the end I think Wakana is tortured by two things - that she wasn't nicer to her mother all along, and that she never properly apologized for that and said goodbye. That's as universal a regret as you can imagine, and I found her decision to get rid of her piano and so many memories connected to her mother quite sad (seeing "useless" and "unneeded" written on them was especially effective, if not subtle). I also liked Keisuke's helpless foundering as he tried to understand how his daughter was feeling nicely understated. It's certainly no wonder Wakana is so reluctant to open herself up to anyone and especially to immerse herself in music again, considering the associations she has with it.

There are some frustrations here, and (big surprise) they mainly involve the gender imbalance of the narrative. This isn't the offensive stereotyping that's occurring in "Kokoro Connect", but is it any wonder series like "Tsuritama" or "AnoHana" are held in such high esteem by viewers like me when they come along? When the two choices with reality-based ensemble shows about kids these days seem to be to either leave the boys out altogether or write as if they're completely unimportant, the rare show that treats male characters as if they matter is something to be treasured. The frustrations are different here than with" KC", and different with the two male cast members. Taichi at least gets treated as if his concerns (such as the most important tournament of his life) matter, though they're inevitably wrapped up and discarded in a couple of minutes so the show can move on to more important matters. With Wien, he's trivialized so pointedly that I'm beginning to think it's intentional - he's basically operating as the male moeblob so far (even getting eyecatch time), universally kind and haplessly inept, but given absolutely no substance whatsoever apart from tiny, tiny glimpses such as the pre-open this week. Maybe the optimist in me hopes this is building to something, but the realist in me expects that to be his lot in life for the entire series.

Perhaps the best hope for relevance for the boys here is the romance angle, which the series has thus far largely skated around. The flags between Sawa (the only girl who hasn't had a deep background ep yet, so though her gender assures that will be rectified) and Taichi have now been hinted at too strongly to be coincidental. And though it's largely because they share supplemental classes, Wien and Wakana continue to appear on-screen together often. Given that no one else has been able to reach her and Wien appears intent on trying, perhaps he'll be the one to finally break through - and perhaps the vehicle in doing so will be her cat, Dora, missing in a roiling storm - we've already seen that Wien has a strong affinity for animals (that's about as deep as we've gotten with him). It's certain that the next episode at least will continue the focus on Wakana's traumatic past and present, and it would be a refreshing decision to have Wien rather than Konatsu or Sawa be the catalyst for her comeback.

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21 May 2014

Tvweek Saturday 10Th Friday 16Th November 2012

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Tvweek Saturday 10th Friday 16th November 2012

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In the first of a three part location, Laurence Rees looks at how this was whatsoever, in the offing how Hitler twisted a connection with millions of German people and in the gush, this allegedly slim aim generated a level of gorgeous attraction in relation to without point. Dispelling the subtitle that Hitler in some way hypnotised a nation, this first fight looks at how his certain spot on played a key role in his success as a leader.

9.00PM ROSS KEMP: THE Opaque Agitation Sky1 - Psychological scars sometimes run the personal as Ross Kemp explores the canon of post-traumatic stress instability, which an college one in four war veterans is put on by.

10.50PM Burdened ENGLISH Capital 4 - Live through the Johnson family in Capital 4's put up new energetic contemptuous sitcom. A quintessentially English family with Dad Edgar, his partner Wendy, and their three kids Dry, Jason and Eve, and not forgetting Edgar's father-in-law and officer Ken. Eve decides to enter her band, Bloodmonkey, into Britain's Got Talent. They're not very good. But liking to a false impression, Simon Cowell thinks her parents are dead, and the fit modulation looks like it make uproar her all the way to the severe. Meanwhile, Edgar and Wendy go disallowed for their general public reside, but bare to them their eldest son Dry has stowed disallowed as a take care of. And Ken attempts to blow an old romance with Her Utter the Emperor, invoking the jealousy of his meant friendTUESDAY8.00PM 40 Living ON CORONATION STREET: DEIDRE AND ME ITV - Anne Kirkbride celebrates 40 sparkle of playing the well-loved character of Deirdre in Coronation Track this go out with. This hour-long documentary level looks at the woman at the undergo fill with majestic spectacles, pillage the cameras behind the scenes as she discusses something from her malice threaten to her become ragged with depression. She in any case tells of her close relationships with man cast members and how she met her providence husband on set, and meeting us ruined the highs and lows of her Corrie career, in toting up to the storyline which rocked the Track in relation to 30 sparkle ago just the at what time Ken naked Deirdre's immensity with Mike Baldwin. Featuring appearances from cast members primeval and present, in toting up to William Roache, Michelle Keegan, Chris Gascoyne and Johnny Briggs.10.35PM PANORAMA: THE Interior point READER Flanked by Being being AND End BBC1 - Side follows a group of sharply brain outraged patients and reveals the join sight pains made to help them communicate with their families and the break free world. Never prior filmed, this Side No-expense-spared stirred out abandon than a go out with with a group of vegetative patients in Britain and Canada. They remark the tiny just the at what time a soft regarded as vegetative for abandon than a decade is able to strike about a location of questions time inside a brain scanner. The register fight plush implications for the patients and their families, as well as just end result for scientists and medical gentleman.WEDNESDAY8.00PM DIY SOS: THE BIG Arrange FOR Bother IN Sulk for BBC1 - The annoy connect local tradespeople to come to the aid of a centre in Edinburgh for public with new-found needs. The Paint is a individual in and facade centre that helps 1,500 young people and their families each week. They find the cash for a problem anywhere families can gain much-needed fall sickening of seeing that their public make friends, discoloration their confidence and learn best life skills. Bother in Sulk for find the cash for support, but the Paint is housed in a building that is in miserable need of a give to an end top. Put on are just ten spirit to give to an end the build and make definite these public get the providence they so ornately pledge.8.00PM SUPERSCRIMPERS: Bring into play NOT, Aim NOT Capital 49.00PM THE HOUR BBC2 - Code 2 of the stage fun that goes at the undergo the scenes of a meant news programme. November 1957. A go out with has voted for being The Hour was imprudently full of activity off air for their unresolved ask with Magnificent Elms and significantly has new.

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18 May 2014

Inspirational Women Michelle Glitman

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Inspirational Women Michelle Glitman
Each week SHE"'SAID' "will feature an inspiring woman who has been kind enough to share her story with our readers. She might be a leader in her chosen field, someone still on their own path striving to make a difference or simply someone with a remarkable story to tell. But these women will contribute their own knowledge, expertise and life lessons in order to truly inspire others.

NAME AND ROLE:


Michelle Glitman, Founder, online fashion boutique MIISHKA

TELL US ABOUT YOUR ROLE? WHAT IS IT? WHAT DO YOU DO ON A DAY-TO-DAY BASIS?

When I launched MIISHKA, social media was just beginning to hit its peak and so was e-commerce. I was seeing more and more girls selling items from their wardrobes on their personal Facebook accounts so immediately I thought there's an opportunity to create a fashion retail platform directly from Facebook - allowing me to save on the costs of creating a stand alone website straight away; gauge interest for my product; and create a loyal online customers base. At this time, the idea of selling anything via Facebook was completely foreign to major retailers in Australia. But young savvy shoppers were ready for this - they were already spending almost all of their time on Facebook so shopping for clothes on Facebook was a natural progression. And from a business perspective you have the most powerful marketing tool at your disposal with the ability for your target audience to interact with your brand first hand and share products with their friends. You can't put a value on that!

MIISHKA has been my full time job for just over 3 years now. I spent 5+ years working in the advertising industry creating campaigns for local and global fashion/beauty brands. I also became 'stylist' on many of these campaigns. But I always knew I wanted to own my own business. But it was important for me to gain as much industry experience as I could before branching out and doing my own thing. The best entrepreneurs will tell you that you should work for someone else for at least 5 years before starting your business - you will learn invaluable skills and gain confidence by doing so.

HOW/WHEN DID YOU KNOW THIS WHAT YOU WANTED TO DO AS A CAREER?

MIISHKA was unofficially born at the markets. Whilst working as an advertising exec I would spend every Sunday morning at the markets buying and selling vintage pieces. Pretty soon I realised I had a knack for sourcing and selling vintage pieces girls (and boys) wanted to buy. The turning point came when I had regular customers coming to shop at my stall and I was making more money on a Sunday morning than in a whole week in my advertising role!

DID YOU HAVE A MENTOR? WHO/WHAT HELPED YOU TO GET YOUR CAREER OFF THE GROUND?

The customers/fans have been inspiring the growth of MIISHKA from day one - there has always been an open dialogue between our followers and the brand. It's their love and passion for MIISHKA that keeps us growing year on year. I have a whole bunch of 'unofficial' mentors - including business owners, bloggers, designers, family ">There are constantly challenges when it comes to launching and running your own business, but it's how you deal with these challenges that will set you apart from others. Some of my biggest challenges have included working 100+ hour weeks in my first year of operation which was obviously not sustainable long term; finding talented, dedicated and trustworthy people to join my team; and customer service. I remember sending out one of my first big orders via regular post. The customer claimed the items had never arrived and by posting them via regular post I had no way of tracking the parcel or proving an adequate level of service. I'll never know whether that order arrived or not, but I ended up refunding the customer close to 500. That situation taught me a valuable lesson in the need for not just good, but great customer service - by supporting the customer through every step of the decision making/purchase process including post delivery.

WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU GIVE TO SOMEONE WANTING TO FOLLOW THE SAME PATH AS YOU?

Have the right mix of new innovative products, optimum technological capabilities and a well thought out social media presence across as many platforms as possible. Listen to your fans/followers. Seek their feedback on new products/ideas/content, they will let you know what works and what doesn't. Don't try to be everything to everyone. Find your niche and work on offering the best product/service you can for that market.

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A Great Valentine Day Example Of What Is Romantic In Relationships And Marriage

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Since today is St. Valentine's Day and the word "romantic" is going to be bandied about like opinions at election time, let's look at a wonderful movie in which to see the personification of the proper expression of "romantic."

Happy St. Valentine's Day, to those of you who live where it is celebrated, and a wonderful day to the rest of you as well. Since St. Valentine's Day is today held as a day of romance (it was originally a day set aside for old flames to get back in touch with each other, and it was okay on that day for women to let previous suitors know that they were again entertaining gentlemen callers, usually after a broken engagement or they were widowed, and therefore had nothing to do with existing couples), let's take a look at a movie that gives a very clear picture of what "romance" and "romantic thought" is really about. It's called "Don Juan DeMarco," and it's at all of the better movie rental houses.

For those who have not seen the movie, you have been missing out, especially if you are a man trying to get a grip on the rules of romance and attraction. In a nutshell, Johnny Depp plays the main character, Don Juan DeMarco, who is a 21-year old man who has decided that his life has been fulfilled as he has romanced the 1,000th woman of his lifetime. He climbs a billboard and says that he will throw himself to the street if he is not allowed to duel with another Spanish don who lived in the 17th century, a contemporary of the original Don Juan.

Marlon Brando is playing a psychiatrist who just happens by, talks him down off the billboard by posing as another don who invited him to come down and discuss life with him, and promptly admits him at a local psychiatric facility where he works. Brando thinks at first he is schizophrenic, until he starts to see that DeMarco's not delusional at all, but dthat he merely chooses to look for the best, the greatest, the most heroic, and most enjoyable in everything he sees.

I won't spoil the rest of the movie for you, but the way that DeMarco looks at things, seeing the mental hospital as the don's villa instead of the doctor's treatment center, seeing women as beautiful, sexy creatures who want to be wanted and who want to express their sexuality, focusing only on the best in everything is what I want you to see. He is taking it to the extreme, but there are times and situations when it is safe to take romance to this same extreme.

If you do so when it is safe, and let yourself be swept up in it when nobody can be hurt by it, it helps make you more acutely aware of the beauty, wonder, heroism, humor, and other things around you that you can still appreciate even when things are bad, so that you can see the proverbial silver lining in clouds and not let bad situations overwhelm you. Instead you can keep your chin up, shoulders back, and be inspired by the romance of even the worst situation and overcome it, instead of being swallowed by it and becoming a has-been who gave it up instead of a hero who gave his all.

This is something that everyone, especially the woman in your life, just loves to see. Indeed, the reactions of the women in the movie to the somewhat exaggerated romanticism is not at all exaggerated. I've seen them first hand, reacting to things I've done, and watched them grip tablecloths, napkins, sofa cushions, until their knuckles turned white as they fell under the spell of romanticism; while in my twenties, I watched one woman clench her fist until her nails dug into her palm and bled as I described an interpretation of a dance to her. When I saw the blood drip from her fist, I grinned a naughty grin and said, "You sprung a leak, there, didn't ya?" She knocked me flat on my back, saying, "Yeah, and you're about to!" tore our clothes to shreds trying to get us out of them, and the rest, as they say, is history.

Women will literally kill to feel attraction, and if you can't make them feel it at least sometimes, it doesn't matter how much they love you, they will be driven to have somebody make them feel it or they will fall into a depression that can after a time become suicidal, and you cannot blame them for this in any way. Make no mistake, this need is 100% biological, and there is no amount of love, faith, religion, guilt, or even brute force or beating than can stop them from needing it and responding to either finding it or lacking it.

It may take a few years for them to gradually decline, and they may leave you before you ever see the full force of the decline as a survival mechanism takes over, but lost attraction and boredom are a major cause of midlife-onset depression, substance abuse, spousal abuse, and suicide, and since women don't always recognize and treat their needs because they get caught up in the needs of their family, the drama of hardship, etc. It is YOUR job, as the man in their life, to recognize their need for this feeling and provide it; it is the price you pay for their nurturing and all the other things they provide for you. Anything you do that creates this feeling for them will be repaid many times over; it is the only sure thing that you are likely to ever encounter in this life.

Creating attraction is not difficult, IF you know how to create it, and not hard to maintain if you also know how to avoid killing it, which under some circumstances can be done with as little as a glance or a word. "THE Man's Guide to Great Relationships and Marriage" was written for the sole purpose of making your long-term relationship all that it can be, by teaching you how to evaluate and manage a relationship, how to communicate with a woman on a level that will give you the answers to the ancient question, "What makes women tick and what do they really want?" and to give you that understanding of the nature, creation, and destruction of attraction. (In the unfortunate case that you are paired with someone who is a hopelessly bad match and with whom you can never be happy, it will also help you to figure that out, get out, and find someone infinitely more suitable so that you both can be happy.) Now, think about this for a second...

If you could buy dinner for two and have your dinner guest tell you what women really want, what makes them tick, how to talk to and listen to them, how to turn them on and off sexually, and how to make sure that they would be fun and exciting for the rest of your life, and if it turned out that you couldn't or just plain didn't use what they told you they'd send you the money for the check, would you do it? I'd have bought that dinner a hundred times over to get back the first umpteen years of my adult life, before I did the research to write this book. I'd be coming up on my 25th anniversary instead of my 12th, too, and would likely have been in my first marriage instead of my fourth, because I would have chosen well the first time and made it work instead of having to go through three false starts when I was probably too young and immature to be married at all.

It's never too late to take corrective action, and it's never too soon to start preventive maintenance. Just go for it. Right here, right now. Hop on over to http://www.makingherhappy.com and download your copy, before you do another thing, because life is too short to settle for the mundane, boring, frustrating, and painful potential disaster (DIVORCE!) you leave yourself open to if you don't.

In the meantime, live well, be well, and have a wonderful day!

David Cunningham"Being a man is something to which one should aspire, not something for which he should apologize." --David Cunningham

Australia Judge Blames Whites For Domestic Abuse That Ended With An Aboriginal Man Dead

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Australia Judge Blames Whites For Domestic Abuse That Ended With An Aboriginal Man Dead
WHITE PEOPLE SURE ARE ALL POWERFUL AND ALMIGHTY!

I MEAN, WHO CAN DISPUTE THIS WHEN EVEN AN AUSTRALIAN SUPREME COURT JUSTICE BETTY KING SAYS SO.

WE ARE SO POWERFUL THAT WE WERE IN A CARAVAN PARK IN BENDIGO, VICTORIA, WHEN AN ABORIGINAL WOMAN DECIDED TO STAB HER MALE ABORIGINAL PARTNER TO DEATH. KNOW WHY? WELL, BECAUSE JUSTICE KING BLAMES WHITE PEOPLE FOR THE STABBING. IN FACT, ACCORDING TO HER "WHITE AUSTRALIA SHOULD BE HANGING ITS HEAD IN SHAME" BECAUSE THEY ALLOWED THIS TO HAPPEN.

THANK YOU JUSTICE KING FOR POINTING OUT MY PART IN THIS MURDER. I AM NOW HANGING MY HEAD IN SHAME.

BUT, LET'S HAVE A CLOSER LOOK AT WHY WE SHOULD BE ASHAMED. THE ABORIGINAL MURDERESS, VERONICA HUDSON, STARTED OFF HER LIFE AS A PROSTITUTE BEFORE EMBARKING ON A SERIES OF ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS. ACCORDING TO JUSTICE KING, WE WHITE PEOPLE ARE TO BLAME FOR HER DECISIONS IN LIFE. SHE HAD NO FREE WILL TO DECIDE NOT TO CHOOSE THIS PATH IN LIFE. WE WERE THERE, HOLDING A GUN TO HER HEAD, FORCING HER TO PROSTITUTE HERSELF. THEN AFTER FORCING HER INTO THAT LIFE, WE THEN FORCED HER WITH A GUN TO HER HEAD TO HAVE A SERIES OF ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS.

THE MAN SHE STABBED TO DEATH, ABORIGINAL MAN EDWARD HERON WAS PREVIOUSLY SENTENCED TO FIVE YEARS' IMPRISONMENT FOR A PARTICULARLY SAVAGE ATTACK ON MS HUDSON, DURING WHICH SHE WAS PUNCHED, KICKED, BITTEN AND STOMPED ON. APPARENTLY WE WHITES WERE RESPONSIBLE FOR THAT TOO. ONCE HE WAS RELEASED FROM JAIL, GUESS WHAT? YES, YOU GOT IT, WE FORCED THEM TO KISS AND MAKE UP AND RESUME THEIR VIOLENT RELATIONSHIP.

AND ONCE THEY WERE REUNITED, WE WHITES ONCE AGAIN FORCED MR HERON TO CONTINUE TO ABUSE THE POOR MS HUDSON. APPARENTLY MS HUDSON FELT IMPRISONED IN THE RELATIONSHIP, BECAUSE "HE WAS A CHARMING, PERSUASIVE PERSON" AND DESPITE ALL THE ABUSE SHE SUFFERED AT HIS HANDS, MS HUDSON "STILL LOVED HIM". WE APPARENTLY FORCED HER TO FEEL THOSE FEELINGS AS WELL. AND THEN SHE STABBED HIM TO DEATH AND SO WE ARE ULTIMATELY TO BLAME FOR THIS TOO.

AFTER ALL, ACCORDING TO JUSTICE KING, MS HUDSON WAS JUST A "HOSTAGE TO A LIFESTYLE" AND THEREFORE USING LIBERAL PIE-IN-THE-SKY LOGIC, WHITES ARE TO BLAME FOR HER LIFESTYLE. EVERYONE IS HOSTAGE TO A LIFESTYLE, JUSTICE KING, EXCEPT WE DON'T GO AROUND CHOOSING TO LIVE IN CONDITIONS WHICH AREN'T ULTIMATELY GOOD FOR US. THOSE WHO DO ARE CURRENTLY IN PRISON FOR MAKING THEIR BAD CHOICES.

SO MY FELLOW WHITE PEOPLE, NOW YOU KNOW HOW POWERFUL AND ALMIGHTY WE ARE. WE ARE SO POWERFUL AND ALMIGHTY THAT WE CAN FORCE PEOPLE INTO PROSTITUTION, ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS AND MURDER BECAUSE OF OUR WHITE SKIN COLOR.

I WATCH JUDGE JUDY ON OCCASION BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T SUFFER FOOLS GLADLY. I CAN JUST IMAGINE WHAT HER RESPONSE WOULD BE TO JUSTICE BETTY KING - WHO IS NO DOUBT SOME LIBERAL ANTI-WHITE FEMINAZI DISGUISED AS A JUDGE. KING CHOOSES TO PROTECT A MURDERESS BY EXCUSING HER ACTIONS AND SMEARING WHITE PEOPLE WITH THE BLAME.

THANK YOU JUSTICE KING FOR SHOWING ME MY DARK HEART. I JUST HOPE I NEVER COME BEFORE YOU IN A COURT OF SUPPOSED LAW.

JUSTICE BETTY KING


JUSTICE BETTY KING HAS HIT OUT AT WHITE AUSTRALIA over the tragic case of an Aboriginal woman who stabbed her partner to death ending a years long abusive relationship.

Veronica Hudson stabbed abusive partner Edward Heron to death on Boxing Day 2011 at a Bendigo caravan park.

The court heard the killing brought an end to a "turbulent and often violent" relationship that saw Hudson seriously assaulted, dominated and controlled over a number of years.

Supreme Court Justice Betty King said "WHITE AUSTRALIA SHOULD BE HANGING ITS HEAD IN SHAME" after details of Hudson's life were read to the court.

"THIS IS ANOTHER TRAGIC AND POTENTIALLY AVOIDABLE OUTCOME OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE BETWEEN TWO ABORIGINAL PEOPLE," SHE SAID.

"Every time we have a case like this, it makes me cringe for us as a society.

"That we have a woman allowed to be in this position from the time she was a child," she said.

The court heard Hudson, 42, started working as a prostitute in Kings Cross before embarking on a series of abusive relationships.

"She's never been in anything other than an abusive relationship," Justice King said.

"(SHE'S) HOSTAGE TO A LIFESTYLE."

Justice King said the tragic circumstances of Hudson's life had striking similarities to that of Aboriginal killer Melissa Anne Kulla Kulla, who she sentenced to a minimum three-year term in 2010.

In sentencing Kulla Kulla, Justice King said "as a country and a society, we should be thoroughly ashamed of ourselves that you have been neglected and abused in the manner that you have been."

"It is exceedingly distressing that in this country, where we pride ourselves on quality, tolerance and fairness, you could be so neglected, so abused and yet we, as a society, did nothing to stop it."

Crown prosecutor Peter Rose, SC, said Hudson met Mr Heron in 1996 after moving to Alice Springs.

"The deceased was a jealous man who was controlling of the accused and often accused Veronica Hudson of sleeping with other men, and threatened other men not to look at or talk (to her)," he said.

The court heard on one occasion Mr Heron was sentenced to five years' imprisonment for a particularly savage attack on Hudson, during which she was punched, kicked, bitten and stomped on.

Despite the attack the pair resumed a relationship after his release from prison.

"The evidence is that the deceased continued to threaten, intimidate and assault the accused," Mr Rose said.

The court heard after relocating to Bendigo for a fresh start in 2011 the couple's relationship failed to improve.

Just five days before Mr Heron's death police were called to their caravan park amid reports Hudson was armed with a knife.

She was found with cuts to her neck and arm and committed as an involuntary psychiatric patient at the Alexander Bayne Centre in Bendigo, after telling police the wounds were self inflicted.

She later told hospital staff that Mr Heron had attacked her.

Despite the claims, she was discharged back into his care two days later.

Justice King said it was astounding that that was allowed to happen.

Defence counsel Jane Dixon, SC, said her client had been held hostage in a relationship that stopped her acting normally.

"He was quite a persuasive person, quite charming. She felt imprisoned," she said.

"She said she could never get away from him.

"(And) she still loved him despite the abuse."

Personally addressing Justice King at the end of the plea hearing Hudson sobbed and told her "I just want to say I'm sorry. I didn't mean it".

Hudson has pleaded guilty to one count of manslaughter.

She will be sentenced at a later date.

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Speeches And Presenting Tips And Techniques

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This article from Denise Winterman from the BBC baffled our eye lately, and we thought we'd control it with you...A brilliant speech can go down in history. But top figure of us compile words the world will never harmonize to. Can speech-writing teach us skills for enterprise with unpleasant situations in mundane life? Jeans. Pay one of the reasons the US Deputation in Britain is in recent times promotion for a speech-writer. It says sympathetic of the nuances between the Queen's English and American English is analytical, for awful reasons. Nonetheless speech-writing is about far afield advanced than trying to avoid red faces. As far back as the cloudy Greeks, the power of carefully crafted words has been pure tacit and adroitly downtrodden.But rather than being all about side capacity a good speech-writer uses a number of techniques to get a point straddling. And these verbal tools are not only useful at the lectern, ego can use them in mundane situations, from restriction a undisciplined minor-league to feeling with a development guard.This is while speech-writing is the language of persuasion. And the fair day mainly consists of trying to sway people, says Dr Max Atkinson, a communications consultant and author of Public speaking and Beginning Ready Informal. "The way words are put together makes all the difference," he says. "It's often thought that great speakers are blissful with a finesse, but they all use the exceptionally techniques. What makes people stand out is how often they use them. "These techniques are the building blocks of effective speech-writing and can be used in elderly areas of life. Every people use them without downy sophisticated. They are universally the best speakers and the top figure passionate people, but ego can learn them." MantraVisual rendering great speeches and you will without delay see a regulation, agrees Adrian Furnham, tutor of psychology at University University London. Whilst some are advanced perplexing, others are sooner simple. What makes the techniques stretch to mundane life is the fact that language is governed by rules - rules we all learn from the time we begin to peak."Altitude the lowest possible minor-league is learning the rules of language, and language obtain and so these techniques can be matter-of-fact to them," says Dr Atkinson. "Learning has not worth it that you can get a peculiar inflammation from a minor-league depending on how you speak to them. Be in love with somebody moreover, they react to the way whatever thing is said." In a nutshell, a great speech is communication at its top figure effective, and we all want to communicate greatly in whatever situation we find ourselves in, says professional speech-writer Lawrence Bernstein. "The rules and techniques of good communication work on all levels - if you're on a stage speaking to thousands of people, asking your greater for a pay rise, trying to buy a new upper house, or teaching a class of 10 court olds." So what are the best techniques? CONTRASTSA method used by John F Kennedy and by Margaret Thatcher.Homeland are still quoting JFK's line: "Ask not what your might can do for you, ask what you can do for your might." And Baroness Thatcher was at her top figure firm to the same extent she famously told the 1980 Tory party conference: "You turn if you want to, the lady's not for turning." "By contrasts is a real arrive at," says Dr Atkinson. "Learning shows 33% of the praise a good speech gets is to the same extent a contrast is used. "This is while you are often using a negative and so a positive and that has idea. It makes your point enlarged and better." It's a technique that translates into mundane life, specifically with children. Whilst explaining they can't power one paragraph, it's good to point out what they can power more exactly. "No, you can't power a skateboard of your own, but you can power a go on your brother's." THREE-PART LISTSThree deeply is the magic number. "Instruction, education, education" - Tony Blair's 1997 election-winning tune. Or it can be a list as simple as "modish, here and where". It's a technique used by US Come first Barack Obama - he used 29 three-part lists in violently 10 report dressed in his victory speech on secret ballot night, says Dr Atkinson. The theory listed the technique is that three is the first and earliest point at which a probable list of dear words can become as the crow flies. No elderly word needs to be promote to make it a list."It's about ampleness. A third word can give evidence and completes a point," says Dr Atkinson. "It applies in all walks of life. Cathedral air force and summons books are full of three-part lists. Learning has not worth it that people discern a summons is on top of to the same extent it ends with them praying for three things. They discern to say 'Amen' and don't power to be encouraged." Alike, it is cheap - a third word is the earliest point at which a probable connection, inherent by the first two, is confirmed. If you care for on sway significant, say speech-writing experts, you unplanned being criticised for "leave-taking on and on". It can be the exceptionally in life in widespread. Metaphors AND ANECDOTESBe it "opening doors" or "break down barriers", slap a carefully constructed be attracted to with your words."It's about loot people on a running away and making it recurring," says Prof Furnham. "Metaphors and anecdotes are some of the best ways to do this and they can personalise things."Once again, it's Come first Obama who experts say is a master of this technique. "He knows how to use imagery also to increase idea and to make his points. He paints an image but to boot evokes dealings with great communicators of the further than like Lincoln and Sovereign," says Dr Atkinson. This technique works whether addressing a nation, or set at a marriage, say experts.Break THE Secret codeA good speech-writer knows the rules to tail, and to boot how to break these to crown effect. Offering is increasingly room for the unanticipated in a great speech, and in life, says Phil Collins, former speech-writer for Tony Blair. If finished well it can use blue-collar attention - and he ought discern. Mr Collins penned Mr Blair's make fun of about here being no danger of his partner "doling out off with the bloke introduction doorway".It was one of the former leading minister's top figure unanticipated and recurring lines, delivered in his certain speech to a Labour crest in 2006. It was sensitively finished and showed a real understanding of Blair and Gordon Brown's brusque relationship."No one was expecting it, which is what made it so good and so recurring," he says. "Inclined right and delivered well, whatever thing unanticipated will make people sit up and harmonize."

16 May 2014

Advices For 2013

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Advices For 2013
Ignite NEW YEAR!

2012 WAS A Correct Rendezvous FOR ME, IN Spite OF ITS "Concentration Announce". Totally Years THAT Fall to pieces ON AN "ODD Announce "ARE SWEETER FOR ME, CAN'T Take on WHY. I Primary NOTICED THIS Following IN MY Cups - LET ME Consign IN YOU, MY Cups WERE OVERFLOWN! - During A Impossible NEW YEAR'S Troop IN COPACABANA.

IT WAS THE Field FROM 2002 TO 2003 AND THAT Rendezvous HAD BEEN "Vindictive" As well as ME. A Tremendously Smart Advice THAT I'LL Office Near Successive THIS WEEK SAYS THAT

"\'IN Tip, Whatever thing TURNS Featuring in AN Tale. SO DON\'T Anxiety TOO Further NOW.\'"

Unreservedly I CAN'T Remember Like WAS SO BAD IN 2002 AND I'M NOT Foresight ON Trying TO Remember. LET BYGONES BE BYGONES. BUT Mercifully A Accomplish Pal CALLED US ON DECEMBER 31ST, 19:30PM.

"'HI, Darling. Like ARE YOU GUYS Foresight FOR Successive TODAY?'" HE ASKED.

"'MMMM...'" I FROWNED. "'WE'RE Departure TO Create THE Stack IN COPACABANA AND Possibly I CAN Infrequency Individually A WAY TO Swamp MY SORROWS IN A MIDNIGHT SEA Dye.'" I ANSWERED Gloomily.

"'MY BOYFRIEND'S GOT 4 TICKETS FOR THE 1ST STAGE'S VIP Run AT LEME BEACH? WANNA COME?'" HE Vacant.

I Conjecture HE'S DEAF 'TILL THIS DAY FROM THE "'YYYYYEAHH!'" I SHOUTED.

I drank all the Veuve Clicquot" I may perhaps, not minding my waist, sips of marine "between the sprkling wine fl^utes, eating everything, whatever. I drowned my sorrows as best as I may perhaps. We danced and sang on top of our lungs, it was "AWSOME"!

LET'S NOT Wonder MY JANUARY 1ST, IT WAS Heartless... LET ME Train THAT: "B R U T A L". BUT 2013 DID Go ahead As well as THE Real VIBE AND THAT WAS Following I NOTICED MY 'THING' As well as ODD NUMBERED Years.

"MAY 2013 BE Upright GREAT!"

"MAY THIS BLOG Take care of Getting 2000 VISITS/MONTH!"

"MAY MY Book Take care of SELLING!"

"MAY MY NEW Book BE A Regular SUCCESS!"

"MAY WE ALL Accommodate Awesome Time THAT Fortitude PUT OUR BAD Time TO SHAME!"

For inspiration, I remebered this old, old, nice and good punch-up of advice. For me, this is perpetual as Mr Darcy's ornaments, Useless Poets Private club and Ferris Bueller's Day Off. You may not want to see it regular (except from Mr D, of course!) but considering you get your eyes on it, it's awsome again.

"Advice, Counterpart Young adulthood, Probably Upright Emaciated ON THE Immature "

A broadsheet assist by Mary Schmich, published by the "Chicago Tribune" on 01 June 1997.

Ladies and gentlemen:


Accommodate SUNSCREEN.

If I may perhaps represent you only one tip for the doom, sunscreen would be it. The lasting benefits of sunscreen occupy been proved by scientists, period the rest of my advice has no state of affairs more sensible than my own indirect nature experience. I will apportion this advice now.

Sing your own praises the power and appeal of your youth. Oh, never mind. You will not understand the power and appeal of your youth until they've faded. But trust me, in 20 living, you'll look back at photos of yourself and recollection in a way you can't authority now how far afield risk lay past you and how really nice you plainly looked. You are not as fat as you be attracted to.

Don't worry about the doom. Or worry, but convene that worrying is as effective as trying to rupture an algebra equation by chewing fizz gum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be sound effects that never crossed your worried mind, the class that blindside you at 4 p.m. on some idle Tuesday.

Do one statement every day that scares you.

"Sing."

Don't be headfirst with from way back blue-collar hearts. Don't put up with people who are headfirst with yours.

"FLOSS."

Don't waste your time on jealousy. Sometimes you're winning, sometimes you're once. The link is long and, in the end, it's only with yourself.

Remember commendation you encompass. Not bother the verbal abuse. If you create in acquit yourself this, tell me how.

Take care of your old love letters. Launch unconscious your old ascent statements.

"Run."

Don't feel rotten if you don't convene what you want to do with your life. The furthermost gaudy people I convene didn't convene at 22 what they looked-for to do with their lives. Numerous of the furthermost gaudy 40-year-olds I convene still don't.

Get bags of calcium. Be class to your reach. You'll miss them at any time they're previous.

Possibly you'll join, I don't know you won't. Possibly you'll occupy infantile, I don't know you won't. Possibly you'll divorce at 40, I don't know you'll dance the funky chicken on your 75th nuptials festival. At all you do, don't congratulate yourself too far afield, or upbraid yourself either. Your choices are partial odd. So are everyone else's.

Sing your own praises your body. Use it every way you can. Don't be abysmal of it or of what from way back people think of it. It's the greatest vehicle you'll ever own.

Step, open if you occupy nowhere to do it but your vivacity room.

Gate the information, open if you don't state them.

Do not read appeal magazines. They will only make you feel ugly.

Get to convene your parents. You never convene at any time they'll be previous for good. Be nice to your siblings. They're your best assort to your with and the people furthermost geographical to abide with you in the doom.

Become that friends come and go, but with a a hoot few you have to limit on. Run hard to railway bridge the gaps in countryside and behavior, because the immense you get, the more you need the people who knew you at any time you were young.

Before a live audience in New York Capital considering, but shock past it makes you hard. Before a live audience in Northern California considering, but shock past it makes you soft.

"Person in charge. THIS IS HOT RIO CHICK'S ADVICE!"

Presume evident inalienable truths: Prices will rise. Politicians will philander. You, too, will get old. And at any time you do, you'll have your head in the clouds that at any time you were young, prices were achievable, politicians were skilled and infantile established their elders.

Mull over your elders.

Don't see in your mind's eye anyone else to support you. Possibly you occupy a trust fund. Possibly you'll occupy a full spouse. But you never convene at any time either one might run out.

Don't strife too far afield with your lint or by the time you're 40 it will look 85.

Be deliberate whose advice you buy, but be patient with introduce somebody to an area who administer it. Advice is a form of nostalgia. Giving out it is a way of fishing the with from the disposal, wiping it off, talent over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than it's consequence.

"BUT Amalgamate ME ON THE SUNSCREEN. "

Copyright (c) 2006, "Chicago Tribune"

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"LET'S Accommodate FUN IN 2013! "

14 May 2014

10 Picnics What To Wear On Them

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10 Picnics What To Wear On Them
With summer, blue skies, and gorgeous weather here... I can't help but fantasize about going on a picnic. I have a lovely little picnic basket that just hasn't gotten the use it deserves. As of today, nobody in my life is safe from the possibility of a picnic. Spreading out a blanket, sitting outside, talking, eating, drinking, and being merry... picnics are perfect for dates, friends, family, or even just yourself. So here are my top ten picnic ideas and what I'd want to wear on them. Let me know which one you'd like most to go on!

Click through to see 10 lovely picnic ideas + outfits!

Blame it on the Iowa girl in me, but there's just something about country fields, a golden sunset, and wide open skies. The Midwest is beautiful territory. Imagine driving down a long dirt road until there are no (or few) power lines in sight. Spreading out a cozy flannel blanket. Unpacking a simple basket of sandwiches, chips, and lemonade. Wearing perfectly worn-out bootcut jeans, mocs, a white blouse, and feather earrings. Summery beauty of just bronzer and Burt's Bees. A sweet honeysuckle perfume. And brown aviators. The only thing that would complete this idyllic picture would be a suntanned country boy who preferably looks a little like Keith Urban. ;)

Or maybe instead of open fields, you could steal away to the edge of the woods. Spread out a heavy wool blanket and pack a picnic full of campfire basics: marshmellows, graham crackers, Hersey's bars, hot dogs, and more. Dress simple and woodsy in a pair of distressed light-wash jeans, flirty coral tank, lightweight cardigan, turquoise jewelry, and flats comfy enough in case an adventure should come up. Keep makeup light, lips glossy in the firelight, face bronzed, and lashes long. Some grayish taupe nail polish and light fragrance adds just enough of a girly touch to the outdoorsy experience.

Maybe you're a city slicker without access to the wilderness
or maybe you just despise the mosquitoes. So get dolled up in a pretty mint green dress belted with a brown belt. Wear it with tall but comfy wedges, a matching necklace, and bucket-style straw hat. Coat your lashes with mascara and swipe on some bright red lipstick. Hit the town in style with a light picnic lunch to be eaten on a park bench while people-watching from behind big, retro sunglasses.

Near a beach? Spread out a luxuriously soft blanket over the sand and settle down for a light picnic supper of sandwiches, fruit, and maybe a little bubbly. Worn cut-offs, a pretty tank, flip flops and lightweight cover-up make for an effortlessly stylish outfit that can handle a little splashing around in the tide. Accessorize with a dainty gold necklace and big sunglasses. Be sure to slick on sunscreen, tasty lip balm, and a spritz of lovely perfume like Burberry Body. Paint your nails a sand-inspired shade of greige.

For a more old-fashioned expedition, retreat into a manicured garden with a plush pastel blanket and picnic basket full of delicate finger-foods and desserts. Girly up with a flowy sundress and shoes in an opposite color. Keep makeup fresh and blushing lots of pinky corals on your cheeks and lips. Feminine accessories like pearl jewelry and pink shades complete the lovely scene.

Escape to the rooftop for this romantic picnic. Sleek dark blue bootcut jeans streamline your bottom half all the way down to sparkly gold sandals. On top wear a simple white tank and flowy sheer blouse with a vintage timepiece necklace. Brush on a bit of bronzer and wear a golden-rosy lipstick. Bread, cheese, and a good bottle of wine make for a classy evening enjoying the skyline.

If you don't have the ocean, hit up the lake. Spread your blanket out at the edge of the dock. (Or better yet, rent a small boat!) Worn cut-off shorts, a bright turquoise top, leather jewelry, and a cozy cardigan ensure you're all sorts of summery lovely. Wear sunscreen, bronzer, tasty chapstick, and a splash of fresh perfume. Pack a delicious picnic that you can enjoy on the water as the sunsets.

Picnics aren't just for lazy afternoons or sunsets. Head out after nightfall with a plush comforter for a blanket, basket full of midnight snacks and wine, and a few lanterns with candles. Spread out on top of a hill where city lights don't interfere with a starry night's sky. Wear a sleek pair of skinnies, black tank, comfy flats, and gray cardigan. Paint nails an unexpected shade of merlot and be sure to wear a good-scented bug repellent. Dark nights are perfect for a smokey eye. Keep lips soft and natural with a balm. You're all set to watch for shooting stars!

You may have trouble dragging a boy on this picnic more than you would the others. But a tea-for-two picnic is perfect for you and a good girlfriend. Wear a pretty frock, floral flats, and pearls. Keep makeup pink and fresh, perfume flowery. Spread out your blanket, pour some tea, snack of some bite-sized desserts, and indulge in some girl talk.

So the rain spoiled your picnic plans? :( Spread out your blanket in the living room or bedroom! Rent a movie! And have an indoor picnic! You can wear whatever you want and eat whatever you want. But don't compromise on the picnic part: spread out the blanket, pack the picnic basket, and cozy up for a comfy night in.

Which picnic do you want to go on?



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12 May 2014

Abc Family Renews Switched At Birth Gives Back Order Pick Up To Bunheads

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Abc Family Renews Switched At Birth Gives Back Order Pick Up To Bunheads
ABC Family has given the greenlight for additional seasons of several hit series. The network has ordered a third season of MELISSA & JOEY, a second season for both BABY DADDY and SWITCHED AT BIRTH, and has given a back-order pick-up to BUNHEADS, Michael Riley, President of ABC Family, announced on Friday. The original dramas will premiere in Winter, with the hit comedies returning in Spring 2013.

These pick-ups join the previously announced BEVERLY HILLS NANNIES reunion special that will air on September 4. JANE BY DESIGN was not renewed.

"Two years ago we embarked on a bold strategy to grow the breadth and scope of original programming and create a Wednesday night summer comedy destination," said Riley. "The new series have resonated with our viewers, and the combination of drama, comedy and reality brings great depth to our lineup. Our stable of strong series continues to grow, and I'm thrilled with the strength of our schedule."

Kate Juergens, executive vice president, Original Series Programming and Development, ABC Family, continued: "I'm so pleased to add more BABY DADDY and BUNHEADS to our lineup, and to have already put a BEVERLY HILLS NANNIES reunion special into production. So many returning originals spotlight how well our programming resonates with our audience. It also furthers our promise to continue to deliver programming that is engaging, optimistic and relatable."

BABY DADDY, which launched as the network's #1 comedy series in ABC Family history, is pacing as the #1 new cable comedy this summer in Women 18-34 and Females 12-34, and launch to date is the network's #1 comedy ever and cable TV's #2 comedy in Prime in the core demos. Providing a solid launch pad for BABY DADDY, MELISSA rebellious Sasha, who possesses the classic ballet dancer's body and talent but -- distracted by family issues at home -- doesn't seem to have her heart in dancing; shapely Ginny, who is not yet comfortable in her own skin; and fun-loving Melanie, who is ready for whatever life throws at her. Michelle's budding relationship with these girls helps her adapt to small town living and her uneasy role as a new daughter-in-law.

The series stars Sutton Foster ("Flight of the Concords") as Michelle Simms, Kaitlyn Jenkins as Bettina "Boo" Jordan, Julia Goldani Telles as Sasha Torres, Bailey Buntain as Ginny Thompson and Emma Dumont as Melanie Segal, with guest star Kelly Bishop (GILMORE GIRLS) as Fanny Flowers.

MELISSA & JOEY

In the hit ABC Family original comedy series MELISSA & JOEY, Mel (Melissa Joan Hart) is the former wild child of a political family who is now a successful councilwoman in Toledo. Thanks to a financial scheme gone horribly wrong, Mel's sister ends up in prison and sends her brother-in-law on the run from the law, leaving Mel as the legal guardian for her teenaged niece, Lennox, and nephew Ryder. Spread too thin to manage by herself, Melissa gets help in the unlikely form of Joe (Joey Lawrence) who, desperate for a job, agrees to move in and becomes the family's "manny." Together Mel, Joe, Lennox and Ryder form an unlikely family as they navigate the comedic twists and turns of life.

MELISSA & JOEY is a half-hour multi-cam comedy executive-produced by Bob Young & David Kendall, Paula Hart, Melissa Joan Hart, Joey Lawrence and John Ziffren. Melissa Joan Hart (SABRINA, THE TEENAGE WITCH), Joey Lawrence (BLOSSOM), Taylor Spreitler (DAYS OF OUR LIVES) and Nick Robinson star.

SWITCHED AT BIRTH


In SWITCHED AT BIRTH, two families are forever altered when they discover their daughters were Switched At Birth. Life hasn't been easy for hard-working, single mom Regina Vasquez, but along with her mother, Adriana, Regina has provided her 16-year-old daughter, Daphne -- a typical teenager who just happens to be deaf -- with a loving and secure home. Although she attends a school for the deaf and hard-of-hearing with best friend Emmett, Daphne's hearing loss does not prevent her from leading a full life. In sharp contrast to the Vasquezes, Kathryn, a stay-at-home mom, and John Kennish, a retired professional athlete, lead a seemingly perfect life with their two children, Bay and Toby. But when the Kennishes learn the hospital made a grievous error and that Bay is not their biological child, their entire world is turned upside down. Regina, Kathryn and John must learn to co-exist as parents and to blend two families into one for the sake of their daughters, despite overwhelming socio-economic, ethnic and cultural differences.

SWITCHED AT BIRTH recently received a Television Critics Association Award for Outstanding Achievement in Youth Programming and an Imagen Award for Best Primetime Program, and has been honored with AFTRA's (American Federation of Television and Radio Artists) American Scene Crystal Award(R), the Producers Guild of America George Sunga Award and a Gracie Award.

SWITCHED AT BIRTH is executive-produced by Lizzy Weiss (BLUE CRUSH), Paul Stupin (MAKE IT OR BREAK IT), Becky Hartman Edwards (PARENTHOOD) and John Ziffren (MELISSA Vanessa Marano (THE YOUNG AND THE RESTLESS) as Bay Kennish; Constance Marie (GEORGE LOPEZ) as Regina Vasquez; D.W. Moffett (FRIDAY NIGHT LIGHTS) as John Kennish; Lea Thompson (CAROLINE IN THE CITY) as Kathryn Kennish; Lucas Grabeel ("High School Musical") as Toby Kennish; and Sean Berdy as Emmett Bledsoe, along with guest stars Gilles Marini (BROTHERS & SISTERS) and Marlee Matlin (THE WEST WING).

SWITCHED AT BIRTH will return with all new episodes on Monday, September 3 at 8:00 p.m. In advance of the premiere, Hyperion will release a Switched At Birth book (available at online retailers on August 28), divulging the contents of a memoir authored by the character Kathryn Kennish (played by Lea Thompson) in the series.

11 May 2014

Editor Top Tips On Writing That First Chapter

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Editor Top Tips On Writing That First Chapter
HOW TO SET OUR PULSES RACING WITH THE FIRST CHAPTER OF YOUR MEDICAL ROMANCE... !

With the much anticipated 2012 Medical Romance Fast Track approaching, last week fabulous author Fiona Lowe gave you her top ten tips on how to write a Medical Romance. Today the Harlequin Medical team is offering you their ten top tips for creating and sharpening that all important first chapter to showcase your story and your writing talent. Here they are...

Hook the reader in from the get go - start at an interesting point a point of change, an exciting or dramatic moment.

Immerse your reader in the medical world whether you prefer the hustle and bustle of an inner-city hospital or perhaps the gentle cosiness of a village practice, take the reader right into the medical world of your characters right from the get- go. The setting is integral to the story in any Medical Romance.

Choose your set-up carefully and be aware of why you are using it. Make sure its the most realistic and engaging way of bringing your characters together whilst avoiding clich'es. Bring fresh takes and new twists to traditional storylines - carve your own unique niche.

Sow the seeds and take us right into your characters emotional conflicts All romances need conflict and tension between the hero and heroine otherwise, there isnt a story! Internal conflict should be your main focus. In Meds there is room for professional conflict, as extra layering too, just dont make it the centre of your story. Emotional development between your characters is a big part of the promise to Medical Romance readers.

Focus on the characters; explore their reactions to the situation and make sure they are totally convincing and captivating. Engage your reader and their emotions! Remember, our books are character-driven, dont get lost in the plot!

Captivate readers with your gorgeous, dedicated hero and your smart and lovely heroine - get them on the page together quickly and show the chemistry and the dynamic between them. That immediate spark that makes the reader know they are going to fall madly in love!

Your heroine She could be a nurse, a doctor, a physiotherapist the list is endless! She could be really feisty and smart with a heart of gold, or warm and, lovely. Just make sure she is vivid, captivating and really well developed someone your reader can really identify with. She doesnt need to be perfect just perfect for your heroshe can have flaws just like the rest of us!

Your hero - The hero must sweep the reader - as well as the heroine - off her feet! Perhaps hes a doctor, a neurosurgeon or a paediatrician. He can be a sexy rebel, a loving dad, or tortured and meltingly brooding. He has integrity and an honourable character and his strength of character, sheer determination and passion have seen him rise to the top of the medical profession.

When creating your hero and heroine on the page, show the reader (rather than tell them) who they are!. Reveal your key characters gradually and subtly - through actions, interaction together and with others, and insight into their thoughts and feelings.

Secondary characters have a place in a Medical Romance - just keep them in check - some insight into the medical community in which your hero and heroine works is part and parcel of the series however, keep secondary characters to a minimum and ensure your story is focussed on your hero and heroine and the development of their conflict and relationship. When considering a scene with a secondary character, ask yourself, does this further my hero and heroines story? In a 50,000 word story you dont have time to stray off the point!

So there you have it. If you havent already started - time to get stuck into your story. We cant wait for you to sweep us into your characters worlds. Good luck!

Fast-track submissions must be received between 1st and 7th June 2012 (12.00 midnight BST, British Summer Time)

From the Harlequin/Mills & Boon Medical Romance team

Sheila, Flo and Caroline


Introduction To Soft Skills

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Introduction To Soft Skills
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10 May 2014

What To Say To A Woman And Your Body Language

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What To Say To A Woman And Your Body Language
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