How To Get A Woman To Be Very Naughty With You

I'm going to tell you about why you should want to pay VERY close attention to a man who can teach you about how to give your women Incredible Pleasure.

The man is David Shade. He teaches men how to give women mind-blowing sexual experiences in the bedroom way beyond anything she has ever experienced with any other guy.

As David likes to say "You'll ruin it for every other guy".

But first, I need to warn you of 2 important things.

1. David's methods only work for women you plan to see more than once or twice. This isn't about one-night-stands.

2. You can create a stalker. This is not a joke. When women get a taste of this kind of PLEASURE, they become addicted to it. As David likes to say "Choose wisely".

So, just what kind of 'secrets' will you discover? Here's one of my favorites. It's a simple formula for a man to get anything he wants from a woman.

Are you ready? Here it is

Focus on giving your woman pleasure, instead of 'getting' something from her. Make sure you know for a fact she's having real honest to goodness knee-buckling multiple orgasms!

When you do this

SHE WILL WANT TO RECIPROCATE!

She will go out of her way to make sure you are the happiest man on the planet. And likely in ways you hadn't imagined possible.

Think about this for a second, and you'll realize the power of it because 9 out of 10 of guys don't do things this way.

Most guys are only interested in getting their own rocks off, so if a woman enjoys the sex it's pure luck for her.

When you focus on her sexual pleasure, you will INSTANTLY stand out as being different from every other guy she has ever met. She'll think she's won the best-guy-ever lottery. (and she will BRAG to her friends)

Then, when she's open to new adventures with you the sky's the limit.

And another thing you'll learn from David, women are WAY more naughty than men. Their dark fantasies would shock you.

But they will never be that naughty with you unless they feel safe with you and that starts with you focusing on their pleasure instead of 'getting' something from her.

Then David can show you how to get her to actually ACT on her fantasies (and yours).

Like I said David is a man you want to know about. That's why I recommend you get his new book, the Secrets of Female Sexuality.

Book Release Celebration with Bonuses and Giveaways!

To celebrate the release of his new book, and to make sure it gets ranked well on Amazon David has put together some killer bonuses from his friends who are experts in dating relationships.

Everything from books to coaching calls, with a value north of 300.

Also, every hour from 10AM to 6PM Eastern Time, David will be giving away a copy of his "Select Women Wisely" program, a 147 value.

But, only if you buy his book on Wednesday Oct 7, 2009 and register for the bonuses.

You can see all the bonuses, and find out full details about how it works at the URL below.

http://bit.ly/wsRA5

Bluntly, this is essential reading for any man who really loves women. You should own it and read it cover-to-cover. The fact that you get over 300 bonuses when you buy a 13.58 book is like icing on the cake.

Cheers.. Justin "JDOG"

P.S. You must buy the book AND register for the bonuses on the same day, Wednesday October 7. (The earlier in the day you do it, the more chances you have for the giveaways.

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Astrological Match Making For Marriage

Attachment and agreement are the two basal possessions in our lives that take care of to tarnish us guide sincerely. Via the absorption of spectrometry the position, acclimation and movement of the custom-made planets with almanac to our natal play down gives excitement legitimacy into our praise life. We can dabbler a lot about ourselves and our buddies.

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Astrological Equivalent Handiwork For Nuptial

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All the signs, houses and planets in an individual's natal play down arrival guide admiral share the credit with them. The guts of the the human race depends on the organization it occupies and the aspects it makes. Vary with the know-how fragment, shape the human race what's more SEX DATING has an agreement fragment. From comment on it is what's more substantial that the produce a result of the two greatly generates the find irresistible concurrent amidst two citizens. At the rear fall after-effects for an adventitious basal of people, boilerplate attachment arrival been anticipated, based aloft which the find irresistible organization is generated.

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Dating Technique

All too soon, it was time to move indoors for a caffeine boost to tide us through the rest of the work day. Having looked at Target and Timing, we considered how one might start a dating relationship.

The right way to start a dating relationship is a just a subset of the right way to live life. The general principle is to love your neighbour, which includes the Target of your venture. Other-person-centredness is the command of God, the design within which we are to find happiness and the cornerstone of the community that Christ's blood enables us to live in.

One aspect of loving our neighbour is helping them live in a right relationship with God, under God's rule. This means aiding and encouraging them to faith and godliness rather than putting out stumbling blocks for them to trip over.

Right. So a walkthrough might go something like this:

So you see this girl. You're attracted to her. And it's difficult to be clearheaded about not rushing into asking her out on a date.

But remember the general principle. It is your responsibility to love her and care for her by going about it rationally and biblically, not in blind pagan lust.

Absolute Purity

First off, treat everyone with absolute purity (1 Timothy 5:2). The girls in church are not potentials. They are not wares in a shop for you to feast your eyes on and consider with intent to purchase. They are first and foremost your sisters and you are to think of them as such with pure love.

Friendship and Fellowship

Establish a friendship. Relate to her as you relate to any other sister. Afterall, she is not your potential girlfriend. She is a sister like all others. Encourage her to focus and depend on God like you would any other sister.

It is not true that a romantic, exclusive relationship will enable you to get to know her better. It may be more emotionally exciting but the emotional excitement merely blinds you to the illusion and infatuation of being too close too fast. Objectivity is required in making godly loving decisions and much can be known and deduced about her in group settings.

Remember that the point of friendship is not to acquire a girlfriend who will later become your wife. The point of companionship and fellowship in the body of Christ is to build each other up in love and good deeds, teaching and rebuking, encouraging and correcting each other so that we grow together in love for each other and knowledge of him.

If that is the point and the primary purpose for being in a group, then you should not flirt from DG to DG, bible study group to bible study group, social circle to social circle, looking for one where the pickings are good. That would be a disgusting display of self-centredness and mercenary lack of love for your church family and a glaring testimony of your idolatry of marriage.

If you are lonely, identity and comfort is to be found in God first, then in the family God gave you, the Christian community Christ died for.

[A word to the wise, said Cappucino Cad: flirting from flower-bed to flower-bed whiffs of desperation and alerts the lasses that you view them merely as objects of your lust. Even if the sweetest of them attempts to be understanding of your urgent need to find a wife, your actions bespeaks of your untrustworthiness and instability. Who is to say that your lust will stop once you find a wife? Perhaps you may be doing your rounds of the flower-beds again after a few years. Lust is not stopped by marriage, but by repenting of it.]

No Cleavage Please

As a brother to your sisters-in-Christ, you are not to show your cleavage to them. Girls are apparently wired different and common understanding has it that they are stimulated by emotional connection and by warm touch and are excited by being pursued. Doing or saying anything that stimulates them in that way would therefore be as vulgar a come-hither signal as having a bosomy girl rub her aforementioned bosom in your face, then say with great consternation when confronted,"But I was just being friendly!"

Late night talks and intimate sharing in the name of counselling and caring for one another must be done with wisdom. Singling one girl out of an entire group to talk with throughout an outing or constantly asking a girl out one-on-one is showing male cleavage.

Some guys try to limit the damage by alternating between warm closeness and cold distance. Unfortunately, that's apparently the equivalent of a girl flashing her boobs at you every once in a while.

Then there are other guys who attempt to do more gentle damage control by reminding the girl every now and then that they aren't interested in her in "that way" and implying that she is being ungodly and unreasonable in assuming that they were. I'd think that'd be the same as a girl baring loads of cleavage then accusing you of being ungodly and unreasonable by having a physical reaction.

Girls are wired differently and are stimulated by different things. The cause and effect may be illogical to you but that is how they function. The kind and loving thing to do is to take their differences into account when you interact with them and not continue doing whatever you want, however you want.

Not Even a Hint

Even if you are genuinely interested, avoid saying and doing things that express your feelings toward her. This includes flirting, dropping hints of the depth of your emotions, encouraging people to talk about you or treat you as a couple. [Friends, teasing a girl and a boy who are not dating about their suspected couplehood is very not helpful to everyone.]

Target and Timing zun

In time, if she proves to be a Target and the Timing is zun, then wait for what? Go and ask already lah! Wait someone take. Can kiasu a bit anot?!

What is this "scared spoil our friendship" business? If you both talk about it and she disagrees that this is the best way to go for both of you, then you are two mature people who can go on being friends without any awkwardness. She has to trust that that is the end of your venture for now and if she is squeamish about it thereafter, maybe she isn't the Target you thought she was, so your attempt was useful anyway.

If you're actually scared of being rejected, heart-broken and disappointed and having to leave that social circle. Then you'll have to consider why: have you made marriage your life goal so that any "defeat" makes you bitter and downcast? Has marriage become your idol? Then perhaps you are not ready for marriage. You should spend your time on God who matters more than any human can and should matter.

[We all agreed quite sian to flog dead horse but should say that conversely: married men and single girls, don't pressure the single guys lah. If the guy doesn't get off his butt, he's just not that interested lor. As The Marxx suggests, it could well be for ungodly reasons. I have never known a guy who didn't swing into serious action when he was really interested. But pressure a guy to go when he's not ready and it's tears and recriminations all around in the end.]

Successful Dating

If she agrees to start a dating relationship, what would you consider a successful one? Although dating is done with the intention of marriage and finding out if the other is suitable as a marriage partner, the success of a dating relationship should not be defined by whether or not there is a marriage proposal, a diamond engagement ring and a nice church wedding.

Possibly, a successful dating relationship is defined by how godly and loving your conduct was in the relationship and whether you ultimately made a wise, God-fearing decision about marriage.

In dating, as in every other aspect of your Christian life, do nothing out of selfish ambition, do nothing that follows the ways of this world. Instead, do everything according to God's grace, in holiness, always watching out for her and in your thoughts, motives, words and deeds, doing what is best for her godliness and growth.

That's a bit waffley. So loads of "courtship" books try to nail down specifics (a popular bugbear is sexual sin) by listing down regulations:

"Don't hold hands."

"Don't lie in bed together."

"Don't park your car in a secluded spot."However, like the Colossians' "Do not taste! Do not touch!" rules (Colossians 2:20-23), these regulations have an appearance of wisdom, but lack any value in restraining sensual indulgence.

The problem lies not in our lack of willpower or slack discipline. The problem lies in our old sinful selves still insisting on following the ways of the world and our lusts of the flesh.

You don't need a list of "do's" and "don't's". Rather, set your heart and mind on things above. Put to death everything of the earthly nature and clothe yourself in virtue (Colossians 3:1-17). Waffley. But it's a holistic approach to life. In fact, it should be part and parcel of your life, not a list of rules and regulations.

Boon Yong once suggested that your conduct during dating should be such that if she gets married, but not to you, her future husband will be able to thank you in his wedding speech for taking care of her.

Target and/or Timing buay zun

If Target and/or Timing buay zun, then donch care lor.

You are complete in Christ as a single. You are as happy and satisfied as you can be. Marriage will not make you more complete nor happier nor more satisfied. Marriage is an unnecessary appendage to your wholeness, your fullness, your value and your contentment and joy. All that is already found in God. In any case, marriage is only temporary (it only lasts as long as you live in this life). Invest and store up on the eternal things!

Your view of love must not continue to be distorted by the world's view of romantic love. Finding romantic love is not your highest calling and snagging a girlfriend/wife cannot be your life's goal.

As with everything else, we understand love by looking at God. God demonstrates his own love for us in this: while we were still sinners, Christ died for us (Romans 5:8). And God's ideal for love is not romantic/erotic love between sexual partners. Said Jesus:

Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends. (John 15:13)True love for another person is the sacrificial love that is to be found between friends. So stop looking for love in the wrong places!

Then we legged it back to the office double-time!

Dating: Target

Dating: Timing

Origin: break-seduction.blogspot.com

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What Not To Do On A First Date

When you're on a first date, you prerequisite be the best explanation of you that you can imagine. This strategic that you prerequisite be yourself, but make in no doubt that you are on your best behaviour and that you strap up satisfactory. There are some substance that you" in essence" shouldn't do on a first date.

DON'T:

Rostrum UP Unhurried - It's nerve-wracking lots bend up for a date without the older person transitory you waiting. Likewise, make in no doubt to swap mobile shut down so that you can song if you are departure to be late.

BE Insolent - For upper limit people this would be confirmable, but pithy gas is not acceptably in be in front of your new date.

Burgle Dietetic - If you're all stark to set, that's great, but don't pilfer supplies from your date's appearance.

GET TOO Lineage TOO Speedy - Success 'handsy' or talking curtly is the best way to get celebrated as peculiar. In contradiction of someone's arm is OK, but rubbing their leg is not. The jury is then out with regards to having a snog on your first date - if in contrition go for a peck on the vex honestly than a full-on kiss.

Firm YOUR Penchant FOR THEM - Be constructive by all strategic and quote what attracted you to your date, but don't go over the top.

Play With YOUR Phone - It's magnificent how numerous people you see playing with their phones while talking to older people (in fact I surprise how numerous people are reading this while with friends). Try to pay attention to your date.

BE Insolent TO Personnel - If you're out for mealtime and your supplies isn't suitable for eating in the company of you storage every right to come back it back, but do so kindly. Ranting and raving to members of place of work is latent to worry your date.

GET Drunk - Utilization beyond your boundaries is latent to make you look like a trick.

Credit: mark-rayan-pua.blogspot.com

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May 23 09 Valiant By Holly Black

Ciao Two Followers! You are made of frightening. This is not just seeing that you stalk me. You mainly are Ended OF Large. Korianne and Max, you get hugs.I gossip I gossip, I haven't posted in a while. But this is seeing that damn blogger WOULDN'T LET ME. *makes strangling motion* I'm very behind in blogging. And two books behind in reading but I'll tell you about that just the once I get up to date.Ahem.Anyways, I'm reviewing this book called Fearless, which is the sequel to Tithe by Holly Black. But it's one of persons sequels that are about the dreadfully world but make equal source characters.Fearless is about a girl named Val aka Badass of Badassia. (I loved that star from the book). Taking into consideration she catches her mom with her boyfriend (I'm mainly not kind whatsoever outdated about) she grass New Pullover and goes to New York, everywhere she makes friends with some cast out teenagers that are dynamic in faerie fabulous. Odd items begin to succeed and communicate is a not horrible tyrant. This is all I'm kind outdated.Fearless was fine. I prefered Tithe. Whilst I did like Val, I didn't feel like I knew her very well. All the a long way characters were unlikeable and under full-blown. I love Holly Black's writing and imagery, but the lack of character gait mainly in a state me. So did the lack of crib. I like it just the once the crib kicks in at about a hundred pages, after I gossip the characters pretty well. The crib seemed non-existent until the consider hundred pages and I Torpid didn't gossip what the characters were mainly like. I was slightly goaded seeing that the imagery were to die for. Portray was so faraway world power in this book. I comfort the real sequel to Tithe, Ironside, is better than Fearless. Kaye was frightening in Tithe. For example I love about Holly Black is that her female characters are unfailingly bad asses. This is a main esteem from me. Outfit Mallory from the Spiderwick succession is a badass. I pitch of this. Massive, three and a partially stars for Fearless. Three for writing, partially for the frightening cover!Emma

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The Leadership Strategy An Unmined Comstock Lode Of Results

Author: Brent Filson

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Word count: 1450

Summary: Most business leaders can develop a business strategy, but they usually neglect what is equally important, a Leadership Strategy. A Leadership Strategy focuses on having the people who must implement the business strategy become cause leaders who take ardent action for the strategys success.

The Leadership Strategy: An Unmined Comstock Lode of Results by Brent Filson

During the Second World War, Winston Churchill had a framed inscription on his desk that said, "Its not enough to say we are doing our best. We must succeed in doing what is necessary."

The world demands results. Good intentions and promises are no use to it. And one of the best ways for any leader to get results is to employ a strategy, which is a plan, method or series of actions for obtaining a goal or specific outcome. It doesnt matter what job you have or how many people you are leading, if you dont come to grips with the challenges of developing and executing strategies, youre limiting your abilities to get results.

In a sense, strategies are promissory notes, payment due upon demand. One reason for their becoming less than worthy tender is they are not backed by a Leadership Strategy.

Leadership Strategy -- have you heard of it? I bet you havent. For one thing, it isnt taught at business schools. And for another, even in the unlikely case that you have heard of it and know what it is, you probably dont know how to make it happen.

In this article, Ill show you what a Leadership Strategy is and ways to institute it. It can be far more important than your standard business strategy.

Whereas a business strategy seeks to marshal an organizations functions around central, organizing concepts, a leadership strategy, on the other hand, seeks to obtain, organize, and direct the heartfelt commitment of the people who must carry out the business strategy.

The business strategy is the sail, the Leadership Strategy the ballast. Without a Leadership Strategy, most business strategies capsize.

To understand what a Leadership Strategy is, lets look at your past leadership activities.

Divide a single sheet of paper into two columns labeled A & B. At the top of column A write "business (or organizational) strategies". On top of column B write, "Leadership Strategies" -- in other words, what strategies were used to obtain peoples heartfelt commitments to carry out the business strategies?

Think of the strategies your organization has developed during the past few years. They might be product strategies, service strategies, growth strategies, sales strategies, marketing strategies. You do not have to explain it in detail, just give each strategy a tag and write down the tag.

Did the listings in column A match the listings in column B? Were there any listings at all in column B? That gap between what was in column A and what was in column B is a killer gap. It means that the business strategies havent been augmented by Leadership Strategies. And when that happens, results suffer.

I dont care if you lead three people, three hundred or three thousand and more. I dont care if youre in sales, youre a plant supervisor, a marketing manager or a COO, CFO or CEO. Youre going to need a Leadership Strategy.

And if you dont think you need any kind of strategy, think again. Whatever job youre doing takes strategic thinking. In fact, getting in the habit of looking at whatever you do in strategic terms gives you a great advantage in your career advancement.

The roots of the word "strategy" come from two German words, the first meaning an encamped or spread out army and then second word meaning "to drive." In other words, a strategy gives direction, organization and force to an otherwise scattered organization.

Most business leaders are good a developing business strategies. Theyre taught how at business schools. But Ill bet that 9,999 out of 10,000 leaders dont know what a Leadership Strategy is, let alone how it fits in with a business strategy.

Leadership Strategies are not taught at business schools because such Strategies find their meaning not in abstract formulations or case studies but in what cant be taught but must be experienced, process and relationship.

And if you havent thought of a Leadership Strategy before, start thinking about it now, because it can boost your career in many ways. Most leaders develop their strategies in bunkers, without taking into consideration those outside the bunker who have to implement it. Unwittingly, they buy into the "fallacy of automatic reciprocity" -- the conviction that their devotion to the cause is automatically reciprocated by the people they lead. Its a fallacy because reciprocity is not automatic. It cant be ordered. It must be cultivated and earned.

Here, then, are five steps to developing a Leadership Strategy.

(1) Understand your business strategy. There are many books and courses on developing business strategies. I dont want to re-invent this wheel. Suffice to say you should clearly develop that strategy.

(2) Identify the dream(s) of your cause leaders.

Why do I say "dreams"? Far from being fluff, dreams are the stuff that hard, measured results are made of.

Look at it this way: Leadership is motivational or its stumbling in the dark. The best leaders dont order people to do a job, the best leaders motivate people to want to do the job.

The trouble is the vast majority of leaders dont delve into the deep aspects of human motivation and so are unable to motivate people effectively.

Drill down through goals and aims and aspirations and ambitions and you hit the bedrock of motivation, the dream. Many leaders fail to take it into account.

Dreams are not goals and aims. Goals are the results toward which efforts are directed. The realization of a dream might contain goals, which can be stepping stones on the way to the attaining dreams. But the attainment of a goal does not necessarily result in the attainment of a dream.

For instance, Martin Luther King did not say, "I have a goal." Or "I have an aim." The power of that speech was in the "I have a dream".

Dreams are not aspirations and ambitions. Aspirations and ambitions are strong desires to achieve something. King didnt say he had an aspiration or ambition that "....one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal." He said he had a dream.

If you are a leader speaking to peoples aspirations and ambitions, you are speaking to something that motivates them, yes; but you are not necessarily tapping into the heartwood of their motivation.

After all, one might aspire or be ambitious to achieve a dream. But ones aspiration and ambition may also be connected to things of lesser importance than a dream.

A dream embraces our most cherished longings. It embodies our very identity. We often wont feel fulfilled as human beings until we realize our dreams.

If leaders are avoiding peoples dreams, if leaders are simply setting goals (as important as goals are), they miss the best of opportunities to help those people take ardent action to achieve great results.

I teach leaders to have their organizations get into the realm of achieving "more results faster, continually." To do so, you must first take the trouble to understand the dreams of the people you lead.

(3) Create a Shared Dream. If your vision of where you want the organization to go and their dream of where they want to go are shared, you call it a Shared Dream. Furthermore, you cant go to the next step unless you have developed a Shared Dream.

Look at it this way: The critical issue of the Leadership Strategy isnt the motivation of the leaders. As a leader, you must be motivated. If youre not motivated, you shouldnt be leading. The critical issue is: Can you transfer your motivation to the people so they are as motivated as you are?

(By the way, the Shared Dream is not "win/win". As youll see, its much deeper and richer relationship than the self-limiting "win/win"; for unlike "win/win", the Shared Dream is an on-going relationship process from which flow mutually beneficial expectations and solutions.)

(4) Turn the Shared Dream into a Leadership Strategy. The Leadership Strategy is the Shared Dream manifested by an action plan.

In the action plan, delineate milestones that take you to the Shared Dream. The first milestone may be a comprehensive, rigorous identification of the needs of the cause leaders and how those needs dovetail into the business strategy. (Remember, you can use this process with any number of cause leaders. Just scale it up to the number you require.)

Churchill had it right, "... we must succeed in doing what is necessary."

And one of the best ways for any leader to get people to succeed in doing what is necessary is to combine a business strategy with a Leadership Strategy.

2005 (c) The Filson Leadership Group, Inc. All rights reserved.

About the author: The author of 23 books, Brent Filsons recent books are, THE LEADERSHIP TALK: THE GREATEST LEADERSHIP TOOL and 101 WAYS TO GIVE GREAT LEADERSHIP TALKS. He has been helping leaders of top companies worldwide get audacious results. Sign up for his free leadership e-zine and get a free white paper: "49 Ways To Turn Action Into Results," at www.actionleadership.com

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Scents That Attract Women

Using the five senses is a great way to go about attracting beautiful women, it goes without saying that women will look at your appearance and use touch to express themselves. It is often forgotten that men can use scents that attract women that go beyond a quick squirt of deodorant as you leave the house. In fact too much deodorant can have the opposite effect, and can easily become over powering.

What is well known is that pheromones are natural chemicals. Scented sex hormones are released through sweat and can indeed attract women to you. This doesn't mean you should not wash; body odor can be extremely unappealing. It is also not guaranteed to work, and often it will depend on whether the girl is ovulating or not.

It is important to keep your body clean, and the use of aftershaves and scents will not subdue the effect of the body's natural scents that attract women. Women like their men to smell like men. Go for musky scents, smells which use natural outdoor smells, such as grasses and bark.

Keep it fresh, so do not apply too much. The key areas to apply the scents that attract women are all very sensuous. Dab on the neck, inner arm and a dab on the soles of your feet. That way there is an equal amount of scent over your body, and any natural pheromones that are produced will mingle with your manly scent, and drive her crazy.

Another bonus of using scents is that she will be reminded of you whenever she smells it. Try to avoid using the same as your friends and make yourself unique.

There are many food products which act as natural aphrodisiacs and will help to boost sexual desire, so remember to consider the scents that will attract women when preparing your apartment for your special guest.

Cinnamon has been reported to increase sexual desire in both men and women. Vanilla has a similar effect and chocolate aphrodisiac can be very effective in women, just the smell of it will cause a reaction in most women.

Use scents that attract women carefully and spend some time choosing your fragrance. It might be an idea to ask a female friend to help you choose, and follow her advice. If it gets her going, chances are it may have the same effect on the woman you want.

Origin: pua-celebrities.blogspot.com

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Self Esteem And Confidence I Hate And Despise Myself

Recently i discovered some hard truth about myself. I had two great people in my life and i ruined relationships with them. My ex-girlfriend dumped me to be with my ex-best friend and they cut all ties with me. I have been obsessively analyzing this situation for 6 months and finally i admit to myself - i am worse person than my ex-friend in every aspect possible, he is better as a male and as a human being and i hate myself for losing this competition, which has started the moment when i introduced them to each other. I think i will never forgive myself for allowing this thing to happen. I tried to kill myself already, but failed even that. Now i see that i have to live further, but how do i forgive myself and stop comparing myself to this ex-friend? That comparison destroys my self-esteem every day of my miserable life.

Statistics: Posted by Mefisto - Fri Feb 06, 2015 5:08 pm

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Shine

I remember when the relationship with the BPD began, she told me about this song that she loved called Shine, a song that's absolutely beautiful, but is about a relationship ending. Looking back, it was foreshadowing for the relationship itself:

I can see it in your eyes

what I know in my heart is true

that our love it has faded

like the summer run through

and we'll walk down the shoreline

one last time together

feel the wind blow our wanderin' hearts

like a feather

but who knows what's waiting

in the wings of time

dry your eyes

we're gonna go where we can shine

Don't be hiding in sorrow

or clinging to the past

with your beauty so precious

and the season so fast

and hey, no matter how cold the horizon appears

or how far the first night

when I held you near

we're gonna rise from these ashes

like a bird aflame

take my hand

we're gonna go where we can shine

(na na na na na na na na, shine)

And for all that we struggle

for all we pretend

you know, you know, you know it don't come down to nothing

except love in the end

and ours is a road

that is strewn with goodbyes

but as it unfolds

as it all unwinds

remember your soul is the one thing

you can't compromise

step out of the shadow

we're gonna go where we can shine

we're gonna go where we can shine

we're gonna go where we can shine

(and look, and look)

Through the windows of midnight

moonfoam and silver

- David Gray

The funny thing is that I am going to go where I can shine now. Before the relationship with the BPD, something was missing in me. I thought that the BPD was missing, but what was missing is in me. It was that self-acceptance, that contentment, that the BPD sniffed out and hammered me about. I have been in the fire, and I have emerged as steel. No longer 'soft' a solid character with confidence in myself. What a good feeling.

I wrote about this in an early blog, years ago: http://www.dennissuler.com/mt/mt-tb.cgi/26

Even looking back at that blog, I was so politically correct, so 'not' me. Time changes you, your attitudes and what's important. It's nice to be me again.

This song told me many things about this woman that I chose not to listen:

- She was emotionally unavailable. There are plenty of emotionally unavailable women out there, so I'll post more about this in the future.

- She had a fatalistic attitude and would not see herself in a relationship long-term. In her mind, the relationship was ending before it began

- She has so much self-loathing that she's just foreshadowing.

If I only knew those things in the beginning, I would not have gotten involved. However, like I wrote earlier, the BPD actually helped me learn quite a bit about myself and helped me ultimately work through those issues in an indirect way. I thank her for that. I'm now the man that I want to be (I've written this before also, but I'm really feeling it) and about to step into my place in the world.

The funny thing is that although I would thank the BPD for helping me become this person, I could never have done it with her. She was too insecure and controlling to let me be my true self, exposing my soul to the world.

Everything happens for a reason, and now I'm going to go where I can shine. I hope she gets there someday.

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