What Does A Guy Want And Why Does He Cheat

I think that the worst stereotype is the thought that all guys are the same. It's true that we all share a resemblance. Many of us seem like heart breakers that want to get into everyone's pants. There are a lot of those and sadly the media has influenced society to be that way but that doesn't mean that were all like that. Believe me when I say that it makes it a lot harder for the rest of us to prove ourselves when all girls see is the stereotype. Besides the media, the want to fit in also plays a large part in how we are, similar to women. The gossiping fad is an example on the girl's side. Many of us will seem the same because most of us portray a different personality in public which is usually a kind of "hotshot" appearance. The reason being is because on average, a guy has harder time expressing their true emotions and feelings and it takes an abundance of self confidence and security to overcome it. The people who so call themselves "players" usually just means that they have a hard time getting a girl by just being themselves. That type should be an obvious red flag. The reason that I think girls see that as our stereotype, and think were all the same is not because there are more of that type, but because they tend to stand out the most and that's all the kind of guys woman ever see. As for the rest of us, the one thing that you have to know is that just because a guy likes to talk to you and make you laugh, doesn't mean they're hitting on you and want in your pants. It might just mean they like you and would love the opportunity to get to know you better as a person. Sure later on they may chose to want to date you and someday get closer to you if know what I mean, but that's all guys. You will have to be the judge of character to see what he really wants. Just don't assume by the cover or within the first few dates. More than half of the time he might not want to even date you and may just be trying to make a friend out of you and wants someone more understanding to talk to. Guys crave smiles and laughs from the opposite gender. Not only does boost their confidence, ego, and makes them feel secure about themselves. But it makes their day to make your day. They may put on a mask at first because their insecure, but if you give them the chance to let them open up and show them that you still like them for who they really are, they will stay that way because they now know that it's ok to be them self. Not all guys have to open up like that. Some have already developed an openness and confidence about who they really are. However, just because they appear all the same with their "hotshot" look, doesn't mean they really are. It may just be the style they like to portray. And you can't argue with differences in appearances. It's all about what's on the inside.

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