Assuming that you had been communicating with each other for quite some time now, here are some strategies to test the sincerity of the other person.
"u When you go online, do not be the first to send a message. Deliberately ignore the person and see if he will be making the first move. If he has been online before you do, he could easily notice you when you are already online he should be waiting for you. Do not make an effort to get noticed.
"u If he did notice you, observe if he is doing some effort to get your communication going. If he does, he is sending an indirect message that he wants to hang out with you and he does not want you to leave. One way that this is shown is by asking you some questions or sharing something about him, for instance, something that happened while at work on his way home. These could be signs that he wants you to keep on talking to him. Watch out also in times that you ending your conversation. If he shows no sign of holding you, he might not really be interested.
"u If he is genuinely interested in you, he wants to know you deeper by asking some personal questions. This is a good test for the sincerity of your online date. Observe how he responds to your answers. His responses must show signs of involvement or he could somehow relate to them. If the response is just a casual "OK" or "Really?" and then stops, then he might just be asking questions to keep you busy while he is also busy doing something else.
"u The classic way of seeking connection by asking for advice to a problem also works online. This shows that the other person has that trust and confidence in you that he can now share his problem with you and asks for your support. Even more revealing is when he informs you on the status of his problems. If you did give some advice, doing what you said is a good sign. What is even better is when his problem was solved because of your suggestion and he treated you as a hero for that, this is a big plus for his sincerity.
"u Follow his online activities concerning you. Look at how he comments on your photos or status. If he tries to be agreeable at all times and always sees the good and beautiful side of you, he must really have something for you. His likes and shares also tell something. The more the better!
"u Observe what he does when you have not gone online for several days. If you gave him an access to your phone or mobile, he must have made a contact through any of those days at least once. If he did, that is a show of concern making sure that you are okay. If you did not give your numbers, after several days, your inbox should be filled with messages from him asking why you have not gone online and if you are fine.
Those are very ways of ensuring the sincerity of your online date and that he is genuinely sincere in building lasting relationship with you.
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