How To Flirt With A Guy Without Seeming Desperate

The last thing that you want to have a guy you are flirting with to think is that you are kind of being a little bit desperate. No woman wants to feel that way and if that is what you are thinking most of the time when you catch yourself flirting with a guy, then you want to be able to get rid of that feeling. There is no good that can come out of feeling that way. The good thing is that many times, you are more worried than you need to be.

Most of the time, it is the guy who is going to be worried that he is the one that is coming across as being too desperate in your eyes. A lot of the worry that a woman feels in this kind of a situation is just in her own head. That should make you feel a little bit better. Still, you probably would like to know a little bit about how to flirt with a guy without coming across as being desperate, right?

WELL, HERE ARE 3 TIPS ON HOW TO FLIRT WITH MEN SO THAT YOU DO NOT FEEL LIKE YOU ARE MAKING THAT IMPRESSION:

1) IT'S GOOD TO SMILE AT HIM AS LONG AS IT SEEMS NATURAL AND NOT LIKE YOU ARE DOING IT TOO MUCH.

There is a big difference between a cute and sexy smile and that kind of overly obvious one that says that he can say anything and you are still going to like him. What you want to do is to give off that cute and sexy image, so it is a good thing to smile, just don't cheese it up or make your smile last too long. You are going to do much better if you tone it down a little bit.

2) LAUGH ALONG WITH HIM SO YOU STROKE HIS EGO, JUST BE SURE THAT IT SEEMS REAL TO HIM.

You have probably noticed it when another woman is laughing just a little bit too hard at something that is not even that funny and it probably occurred to you that it came off as being fake. Well, that is something to keep in mind when you are the one that is laughing. It's good to laugh along with him, so that you are stroking his ego a bit, but be sure to make it seem real and natural and not like a put on just to get him to like you.

3) ALLOW HIM TO FEEL LIKE HE IS IN CONTROL OF THE FLIRTING, EVEN IF YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE THE ONE THAT IS REALLY IN CONTROL.

Flirting always requires two people. I really would not call it flirting if it was just one person doing it and the other person was not receptive at all. On the other hand, it can be really beneficial to you to let him kind of feel like he is the one that is in control of the flirting even if you know that it is really you who is. Again, this is just another ego stroke, but it does work and it certainly will not make you seem like you are desperate.

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