Pay attention to her friends
The first mistake that most guys make is ignoring her friends completely. Don't be rude and seem like you're only out for one thing. Be sociable and interact with everyone. Be a gentlemen and offer to buy a round of drinks or something similar. Talk to everyone and be genuinely interested in what they have to say. The main key here is that you can't just completely fake it. Women will see right through you. If you are able to be engaging to her friends, it will win you major points. You'll be showing her that you can be a dating option because her friends can hang around you too. Women don't want to have to choose between their friends and their boyfriend, so show her she wouldn't have to.
Be fun and witty
Women love when there's a fun guy around. It's natural for people to gravitate towards fun people. I mean, who wouldn't want to be around someone that makes you laugh and you have a good time with? The key here is to not overdo it. Don't be one of those guys that won't shut up because he thinks he's so funny. Just be natural and show your wit with a couple well placed one-liners. This is the type of thing that you really can't practice for, either you have it or you don't. If you're not the funniest guy on the planet, at least try to laugh at yourself. Women like a man that doesn't take himself so serious, so self-deprecating humor works wonders. Women love a man that can make them laugh, so spark her interest even more by showing her how fun you can be.
Be a part of the party
A lot of times when women go out with their friends they celebrate certain things like birthdays, a job promotion, or just about anything really. It's important that you show her (and her friends) that you can just be one of the "girls" so to speak. By this I mean that you don't always need all the attention on you. If the night is about her friend's birthday, then make it about her friend's birthday. Buy her a drink, pick up the dinner tab, propose a toast, or something similar. These show that you can be selfless and a good friend to her friend. Her friends will enjoy the fact that you can be a part of the group, and she will think your actions are really sweet.
Overall, the relationship you have with a woman's friends can ultimately decide your fate when it comes to being a romantic interest. Don't blow it by being like every other guy that's come up to her that night. Let her know you're interested, but focus on having fun with her and her friends for the evening. It shows her that you're not a pompous prick who's only out for one thing, and it also gains you some very important allies (her friends) in the possibility of romance down the road.
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For more general tips on increasing your chances for success, check out the Kiss You Back article on how to get the girl. Joseph D is the founder and a contributor of KissYouBack.com, a site aimed at providing free dating and relationship tips and advice to help people build positive relationships in their life.
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